In this life I have been blessed with many things, a good school, lots of books etc.; however, I was not gifted with patience. This lack of patience often sends me on a warpath. After learning this fact and wallowing in self pity for a few days (what else would an emo kid do?) I found a bit more reason for crowds parting before me as I walked. But NOTHING has sent me on such a warpath as weight. In my thinking boys are the worst at weight profiling. Don't get me wrong girls do it too and are very vicious but at least they are upfront. Aha! and at that idea of straightforwardness I come to my point (it has taken me long enough to make it). Why are boys so shallow when it comes to looks and why can't they just admit they choose skinny girls? Think about it for a second or even actively go searching and I think you will find that the boys you associate with everyday will say that size is of no importance to them. Subsequently I think you will find that most of them have never dated someone considered "plus size" outside the world of modeling. Okay now that that is out... so am I Peace- ME
I really don't have a preference because you'd never know behind this screen if you didn't see the person... I fall in love with many personalities.
Orsino's right... most people don't have confidence... and are drawn to it like its a drug. I do like petit girls, but I also like girls with nice big butts... so a few extra pounds doesn't bother me. I'm more concerned with my weight then a girls... dont worry about it...
Everybody is usually concerned with their own moreso than a girl's. It doesn't matter. You can't control a person, nor can you turn them down if you love them... charachter, confidence, and a good mind are three things I don't come across very often.
