First of All, Hi everyone first time posting and just wanted to say I've been following some of the threads and post in this here forum and I greatly enjoyed reading most of them. OK so a little background on my situation and perhaps some of you may be able to offer some advice. I've been married now for over 20 years and lately sex have been a little Same Oh Same Oh in the orgasm department. Its like I've been having the same orgasm time after time and wanting to feel a little change in that department. The SO and I currently have been testing the anal play department and she has been able to heighten her orgasm experience, I on the other hand have not tried it. So currently thinking about trying the prostate message to see if I may be able to heighten my orgasmic experiences but have been a little hesitant because of the actual act of it. In my mind it feels a little violating, I'm just not comfortable being in a position where I'm feeling very submissive...for example on knees or having my legs spread open and someone else doing the work....I guess the big question is, are there other positions or acts one may be engaged in for prostate message that may not make one feel less in control......Advice anyone, and please be Gentle...oh and serious.
Correct, but same O same O was his point. I read it as either auto incorrect or a great play on a phrase, since he said he has the same orgasm every time. As to positioning and control, control is something you hand over when dealing with prostate play. It turns into trust and an interrelated session.
