my boyfriend and i have been living together for a while now. we have been very buisy with work and trying to keep up with payments. ive been thinking on how to spice up our sex life, but its been hard lately because he's always tired. i want to wake him up (if you know what i mean). is there anything i can do or any ideas? i tried sleeping in lingerie, but it's not kicking in. i hope he's not losing interest with me or him finding someone else to screw around with. thanks in advance!