Running into the person you had first bi encounter with

I had my first bi encounter in my youth with a good friend, it went on until about a year after we graduated. It’s been over 20 years since that happened and I run into him often but has never been brought up. Anyone ever run into your first time( or only time)? Has it been brought up or just that lingering thought of wondering if they think of it?

 

Me and a college buddy fooled around one time. He got drunk and we had porn on. Next thing I know he's whipped out his hard dick and it was big and stroking it. We ended up jacking off together. The next day he was freaked out but eventually got over it. We reconnected on Facebook after many years and it's never been brought up. But I wonder if he remembers and thinks about it. I know I do. Part of my bate vault.

 

It’s one of those situations where I’m thinking “ If he whips out his cock I would instantly suck it” but he may have just chalked the whole thing up as youthful experimentation

 

I did run into a past partner while having dinner with my present wife. He approached us at our table and after having some after dinner drinks together and introductions made as we explained to my wife how we knew each other. She'd been told of my past bisexual experiences and thought it was hot but hadn't witnessed anything yet. We all went home that night and had sex...she loved it as much as he and I did and now he and his wife are foursome partners with us. Funny how things can work out in the end. The moment my wife witnessed me sucking his big cock she was wanting to fuck us both and when he and I went into a 69 suck she was rimming us both back and forth. I married a trooper that accepts my bisexuality and I consider myself to be very lucky to have found her and have her in my life.

 

I see the guy who I first completely had sex with. Just the two of us. He's gay so I guess the experience wasn't knew for him but it was for me. We were/are friends and for me I felt like I wanted to cross that line and I wanted it to be with him. I instigated if you will. Since then though when I see him I've always gotten the feeling he doesn't really want much to do with the whole thing but I definitely think about it and him. I loved the situation. It was a great fun night where we hung out together talked and laughed etc, and then it went where I knew I wanted it to go. I don't think I'll ever forget riding him.

 

I’ve been with one guy a lot of times in our 20’s. If we were alone we were messing around. We’d go for hours. It’s been quite a long time but I think about it all the time. I see him just about everyday and it’s never been weird or anything. He’s my best friend and I don’t think anyone would suspect. I always see him where I work. We haven’t been alone in years, although I would definitely like to. I would love for him to pop in through the door while I’m cross dressing.

 

Thats very cool! Did you cross-dress when you would hang out together? I had sex with my best friend growing up; we’d be sucking each other off all the time! Once we sucked each other off in the back of a truck filled with alfalfa bales! The wind threw crap all over us!
After graduation, he just moved on with his life; that really hurt to lose such a pivotal friendship. I know if I saw him today, and its been at least 30 years, I could imagine getting on my knees for him again; all he’d have to do is ‘ask’!

 

My first time (and 3 yr suck buddy) was my neighbor back in HS. We did it fairly frequently in HS and college. After graduating I moved 1000 mi away. I didn't attend our 10 yr HS reunion, but took my new wife to my 20th. She knew about my past MM experiences and ask me to point him out. I did, and she dragged me over to him and introductions were made. A little awkward. Back in our room she was giving me a blow job, paused, and asked if I wished I was sucking XXXXs cock right now. That thought had me filling her mouth in short order. Then we had a hot cum kiss sharing my cum. Saw him again at my 30 yr reunion. Same situation back in our room. She loved teasing me.

 

No unfortunately. But if we ever hung out again I would for sure. I see him quite a bit but it’s a matter of getting him alone. Then it’d be on lol

 

I didn't have my first bi/GAY experience till I was 20 and moved away from home, even though I knew at a fairly young age that I was sexually interested in other guys, long before I realized I was sexually interested in women as well. I grew up in a homophobic family, so I waied till I knew there wouldn't be any "issues" in exploring my gay desires.
From the very first time we "got together" it felt so right and totally natural to be naked with another guy, unlike my past experiences with females in my teens, which somehow always felt a bit awkward, and like "something was missing".
That first bi/GAY experience was aGREAT one, and lasted almost 2 years, even though we weren't "officially" boyfriends. Although we had a LOT of fun in that time, unfortunately we were BOTH bottoms so it didn't work out long term, with neither of us willing to be the "top". Overall though, it was a wonderful experience, and he made me realize that I can be just as (if not more) happy, satisfied and fulfilled in a gay relationship as I can with a woman.
If I were to run into him today (almost 17 years later), I don't think it would be awkward at all, and I wouldn't be suprised if we picked up where we left off... Because yes, we really did have that much fun together... Although my wife would DEFINITELY have her say in the matter, I'm thinking we could work something out, as my bi/gay needs/desires are as strong now (if not even stronger) than they've ever been. My wife is also bisexual and knows of my past experiences with men, so at leat there's some level of understanding on her behalf.

 

It first same sex encounter was with my best friend during grade school. We sucked each other off for almost 2 years. He moved away. I recently found him on fb. Obviously I've not mentioned the fooling around part but he wont even respond to my messages. I wonder if he feels weird about what happened back in the day

 

I totally understand where you’re coming from! My friend, Glen, and I had something similar between us; although I was 14. We spent the Summer sucking each other off after reading lots of porn magazines. Glen started finding porn movies to watch and it wasn’t long before I was first bent over the bed and my ass pounded by his very thick cock. I tried putting it in him once, bit it hurt too much for him. My ass was tight and it made me feel special, somehow knowing I could survive having that hunk of meat pounded inside me.
After I moved away from home, we lost touch. I tried many times to contact him, but some people just don’t want to be found!