You are a very intelligent person. Funny thing is, if you were actually taught the method or learned it you'd probably understand it 100% and see the matrix faster then any of us did!
I'm a romantic too. That's why I'm a pussyless fuck. Nah, just joking. I think it's ok IF it's something that comes back to mind in the spur of the moment. Or if a routine sticks in your mind and you re-hash it in a similar situation. If it's something where I'm going to stand in front of the mirror and chew my nails because I'm afraid I haven't memorized it well...forget it. Right now I'm just interested in humor anyway. Humor. Jokes. And I'm interested in how they are delivered.
We say being ourselves. But it's much more difficult to be ourselves than the sentence connotes. Being oneself actually requires insight, and practice.
I'm sure that your routine works, but I'm with the guys that say it isn't natural. I dunno, I just like to meet the person for who they are, with all the awkwardness, the imperfections, and talk about something random... ya know? Even if that doesn't get ya laid right away or doesn't cause sudden attraction... you still meet a person for who they really are, and they meet you for who you really are. ...and that's pretty cool.
I also think insecurity and awkwardness important in human interaction somehow. People put way too much emphasis on "being natural." But none of it means a lick.
Yes, it's a disturbance in the force for sure. I actually wish I could go back to your way of thinking sometimes. But, like I said, it's like seeing the matrix. You can't unlearn it which sucks sometimes.
Yeah, those are the interesting things about people. It's always fun to figure where their insecurities come from as you get to know them, and the awkward quirks become more cute than anything after a while. It's terrible that people are encouraged not to act like themselves when they're trying to meet people.
Yeah man, whatever works for you. If you're comfortable with it, then that's awesome. You really seem to have something in this though, at least a potential to make a lot of money if nothing else.
Out of curiosity seamonster, what do you usually do? I know you don't have a set routine or anything like that but, how do you usually open a conversation with a woman and how does the interaction usually go?
I've always kinda figured Seamonster was here trying to take a break from teams of girls trying to rip his clothes off.
I suppose the routine is within my own personality, nothing learned. I am pretty funny in person, hard to believe I know. I make eye contact, I send out sort of a psychic vibe, no joke, I send out some sort of aura that envelops the whole conversation. I may start with small talk, but its real, and I am geniunely interested in the answer if I mean it. It may simply be a comment on the night followed by a few light hearted probing questions. When I am out, i generally am "partying" and I think that energy automatically attracts people. I'm not much of a group person, for better or worse, so I seem to create some intrigue in some women and they become curious about me. Sometimes I think the element of mystery can be the best option. Not to say I haven't gone through dry spells in my life, because i certainly have. I also know the type of woman I like, even though its a rather wide group, I know which ones are liable to like me.