Risky meeting someone close to home if your on the downlow?

I was up till 4am texting this guy I met on grindr. Exchanging photos and getting to know each other. Something I never tried. Also saying what we do to each other if we met. I was just laying in bed stroking my cock.

He was willing to have me come to his place and meet but it felt a little weird meeting someone that late at night. He was within a mile away from me.

I said to meet this afternoon but didn't hear back from him. A lil disappointed but more relieved thinking if it didn't go well and how he's close in my neighborhood. Felt it would be weird meeting someone so close to home since I keep my sex life and being bi private.

Any advice or stories to share?

 

I have made the mistake of playing close to home and got burnt. A couple of times I met people I knew lol!

 

Dam I didnt think of that. That must have been awkward.

 

A little but we were both there for the same thing.

 

I fooled around with a next door neighbor a couple times. We were mature about it. Just no strings attached fun.

 

Crazy how that can happen. When somebody is close it may be convenient, but the logistics of being at each other’s houses. If you are married and trying to be discreet, that seems to be a huge obstacle.

 

But on the other hand, the closer you are the more opportunities for a quickie. Distance requires more planning. I'm this case, going for a 'walk or run' can let you blow off some needed steam. You just both need to be on the same page of expectations.

 

Thats a good point. I think I should be smarter about this. I should have asked for a face photo and a phone number to talk on the phone. Try and feel him out. Wish I was more confident to go to a bar and try that way but that's not me.

 

I answered a Craig's List ad for mutual blow jobs once and when I answered the door there stood a co-worker from another department. It was a bit weird for both of us. I invited him in as we chatted about sucking cock, how many times we've done it, who we'd like to suck off. I eventually said "Well, how about we suck each other off now since we're here"...we got naked and started sucking. We never did hook up again though.

 

This was approx. 15 years ago and he's friended me on Facebook about two months ago. I want to remind him of what we did once together in hopes of re-kindling more but at the same time I'm a little reluctant to do so. I'm hoping he starts the conversation which I will gladly accept because he had a really nice cock to suck on.

 

*Thats what im Hoping to find =) I've been curious for several yrs and brought Amazing Joy (im told) to many woman...but the idea of just holding another guys clean Shaven cock in my hand, watching it grow ------> then engulfing it, has almost become a daily thought? Meeting a MWM with bi-curious thoughts or a somewhat Newbie would be pretty cool...
Can you recommend any websites, forums, msg boards, etc. other than Grindr to check out?? Im really Only interested in finding out what it's like to get a BJ from another guy, and then try it myself...Thx, Stay Strong and Hard to everyone.

 

I use bisexual.com and I heard that adam 4 adam or squirt are better than grindr. I haven't used grindr that long but I get a few responses. And even more from posting a photo showing off my body lol.

I jus met this one who seems like he wants to have a fwb relationship like me. But he did describe himself as a selfish top and wonder is that maybe a red flag. He is really cute though. I did tell him I'm more interested in oral and dont have much experience in anal. I think what makes me very nervous with meeting with a guy is not knowing their true intention. I jus hope it works out for the best and I realize I was wasting time and energy worrying when I could have been having fun.

 

You can steer the conversation dicreetly in that direction, without beeing to direct, I'm sure

 

Small town?

Awkward,but you were both there for the same thing. If you agree to meet a random to exchange oral I guess it's implied it's going to happen at the meet. So, you just found out that guy on the other department is a cock sucker, shame on him.

Just goes to show he's no different to you, you might both be normal guys who just sick cock on the side as you like it.

No-one at work would ridicule you if your wife blows you daily, they would be envious

I'm glad people can find the courage to be who they want and have these experiences, I'm a little shy and haven't had the opportunity.

Now sitting around with your co worker discussing who you would like to suck off, really, Slut.

I have sucked anyone of , or had a guy I don't have a list of guys I would like to suck off yet. Maybe I should work on that incase the conversation comes up.

There are a couple of nice cock photos in my inbox, hoping for more but there is one nice smooth clean hot cock I look at in there. It's very straight too. Smooth, now there one I would like to suck off.

 

It was a one time meeting and we provided each other what it was we were there for. A damn good blow job in a number of positions until we each shot out loads in each others mouths to swallow. We never hooked up again but I would certainly enjoy sucking his cock again.

 

I was on Grindr talking to a guy "less than 100 feet away". Turned out it was a neighbor I'd never met, we had a quick oral exchange, though. he left his door open. Was hot walking out my door, down the sidewalk a few doors, without hesitating right into his house. He kicked on his slow jams and we made out and shared blowjobs.