Being and older guy in sexless marriage , leaves only a couple of options, Cheat, try Bi or deal with it and jerk off until you die. Ever wondered about trying Bi, but you didn't know where to turn? You don't trust anyone that you don't know and you wouldn't ask or tell your friend about your desires. Your best friend could have the same feelings that you do, but you may never know. He could be right under your nose. Has anyone breached this barrier and discussed it with a close friend. How did you approach the subject? Did it ever go wrong?
Yeah, I had a conversation with a friend one evening about the frustrations of a sexless or less sex marriage about 13 years ago. He was doing most of the talking as I listened and felt his pain at that time of my life. I had already been with a number of guys for mutual oral and was enjoying it as it fulfilled what I needed. Anyway, he was complaining about the lack of sex. I asked "Not even a blow job?"...He replied NO, and jerking off is getting old. I let him continue talking as I ordered us another pitcher of beer, we were at a local pub. About 30 minutes later our conversation goes as follows: Me: You ever consider getting a bro-job? Him: Whaaaat? Me: Getting head from another guy. Him: Hey, I'm not gay. Me: Your not gay if your receiving. Him: I doubt I could allow that. Why you ask? You get one? Me: Yep, and it was good. Him: Really?...You let another guy suck your cock? Me: Yep, I was nervous at first but he was good and I nutted in like 5 minutes and he swallowed too. Him: Really!...Damn, I don't know anyone that would do that. Me: Yes you do, as I smiled. Him: No way, get the fuck out...You suck dick? Me: I have after receiving quite a few. Him: No way...I don't believe you. Me: Care to find out? I'll help you out. Him: Oh man...I don't know. Me: OK, that's fine...Have another beer. We have a couple more beers as the subject of conversation changed and about 45 minutes later we're paying the tab and heading out to our vehicles. As we're walking towards our vehicles he says... Him: Are you serious, you'll give me a blow job? Me: Sure as long as you're ok with it. Him: I've been getting hard thinking about it the last 30 minutes. Me: Your vehicle or mine? Him: My seat lays back. Me: Lets go! Once inside his Lincoln he placed his seat all the way back, removed his pants and laid the seat back and his cock was semi hard laying on his tummy. I leaned over and took him in my mouth and proceeded to suck his cock. He almost immediately started to quiver (maybe nerves) as I took his cock deep and cupped his shaved balls. His moans we're loud and his cock was raging hard pretty quick as I began power sucking his cock giving him the best sloppy blow job I could give him. He shot his load in under 10 minutes and I swallowed all of it. I came up with a smile and asked if he felt better. He stayed lying back in the seat and said "Dude, that was awesome." He then pulled his pants up and asked "Do you do this often?"...I said as often as I can, I enjoy sucking cock. For the nest 6 weeks I probably sucked his cock somewhere around 25 times and then he and his wife divorced and he moved out of town and I haven't seen him since.
I am in a sexless marriage. My wife lost interest in sex eight to ten years ago from being influenced by righteous co-workers. Then add it to her now health problems. Her sister has always been from I understand pretty much non sexual through her marriage. Her husband and I have shared stories through the years of the goods and bads of our sex lives with our wives. My wife and I have been long time nudists and last year introduced them to the lifestyle. Since then and being nude around each other the talks between him and I escalated. It didn't change our lives sexually at home but he and I got more inquisitive in ways. We started sharing pics of ourselves to each other, showing pics of our erections and masturbation pics and videos. We stood together in a shower and took pics of our hardons together. We never talked of actual sex between us but I think things being what they are at our homes and our curiosities of other things has brought us to the point of maybe trying more together. Unfortunately there became bit of a conflict between us all. Unrelated to anything of the sort. So I don't ever seeing anything ever developing again. Not soon anyway
Settle your conflict then the two of you explore giving and receiving what you don't have with your wives.
Had contact with him yesterday. Looks like we will be meeting up tomorrow or Thursday. I'm sure some nudity will be involved as far as myself. I'm sure it will take a few visits to get things back to where we once were
We had our meetups yesterday. I was wearing pink lacy panties when he arrived. Him, being a very naive person sexually it made him uncomfortable. I eventually took them off and sat naked as was he. It made hi more comfortable. I offered him a cock ring to wear since that is enjoys and is probably the kinkiest thing he ever probably experienced. He visited close to two hours. His excitement had him precuming a lot. He had an erection and I offered him my fleshlight to try. He got uncomfortable again at that thought. He had never known about anything like that he said. He ended up getting himself off before he left.
Well, that's a start, maybe a little to strong. . Being greeted the first time by a man in pink panties would make me uncomfortable, too. If he comes back, start slower. Both of you get naked. Jack get off together. Maybe offer to jack him off. Then work from there.
I'll be working on him. He text me yesterday and said he enjoyed his visit and wants to stop more often. Things will come along slowely on account of his shyness and his being so naive to things. He is 62 years old and has sexual knowledge and maturity of around 12. Lol. His whole life has been about making big impressions on people and his own self gratification. He never took time to learn properly how to make love to his wife. It was all about him getting off. She told my wife (her sister) she hates sex with him. My goal now is to teach him some things and maybe make him a better lover for her sake and maybe my enjoyment.
