I found the basic chart online at lumenlearning.com. The chart is supposed to show arousal intensity vs time. Apologies in advance, my curves are drawn free-hand. I find the shape of the orgasm part of the curve a bit wrong, at least for me. Mine seems more like this. A little slower to build to the peak, and it's a flatter peak. But... Just a few times in life I've had a much higher, but short, extremely intense peak, so intense it's memorable. I can recall the exact location of each time, and when. The red part is what I'm talking about...sort of (my drawing is bad). A short, sudden, but mind-blowingly intense peak of extreme pleasure, then a huge release. It's show going off the chart here, and that's about right, off the chart. But sadly, this has been very rare, only like 3 times total so far. And I've been unable to pin down the conditions that cause it. Possibly a bit of asbstenance, but that doesn't do it by itself. So my questions to the group: 1. Anyone else ever experience this? 2. Ever find a way to repeat it...get that red peak on demand? 3. Is there a way to possibly extend the peak time? Or would that just melt your brain? I'll just say, I've been using a prostate stimulator for a while now, and it does change the curve. With practice, you can hit a second, higher plateau that you can hang on for a very long time, like up to 20 minutes, so intense you shake out of control. And the total time on the chart can be quite long, usually 90 minutes for me. Very nice indeed, but not the height of that little red peak. And the prostate orgasms (without ejaculation) are fantastic. If you finish with a regular orgasm, it's always elevated. But none of that gets to the extreme intensity of that little red peak. Anyone on a similar quest?
Not to endorse drug use but I recently discovered that weed takes the entire sexual experience to a whole new level. Just a single hit or two and I get mentally/physically aroused without even thinking about sex. For me, that entire blue line in your illustration would be raised starting even before the excitement phase. The orgasm is off the chart and the peak is absolutely extended and while not pictured, the refractory time is also reduced for me.
I think the original unedited chart is the one that matches up to the overwhelming majority of the population. Sure, individuals will have varied responses, but when you’re talking about “everyone “the top chart fits the bill.
I think "expanding the peak time" is something that everyone wants to know....you can make a lot of money on that if you can bottle and sell it. Edging usually gives me more of this female kind of up down response, below, with usually a taller, longer peak at the end. Yes, sometimes it's just way better than others - over the top - it's usually to do with not doing it for a while, or simply just getting that turned on from different stimulation and just thinking about it all day.......and cannabis never hurts....it always seems to intensify things.