Respect privacy.. But...

You do not have the right to read anyone's message logs.

If you think someone is cheating on you, ask them about it. If you don't trust them, end it.

Snooping is no better than cheating.

 

it's just fucking flirting for pete's sake. flirting is healthy. stickin your nose in another person's private space is fucked up. i hope he dumps you if you don't get over it.

 

yeah, and take that...

j/k

no worries, everything usually tends to work out in the end

 

good lord, between my family and my friend, i never had any fucking privacy. people always figured my shit was just community property. it's like you never have any fucking place to just live except your own head, and people end up callin you "secretive." jeez. let people have their space.

 

Quit reading the person's stuff. Hell I love flirting online, even if I do have a boyfriend. Of course I tell the guy about it, but still. Online flirting is harmless - it's only cheating if the person is fucking someone else without asking or talking to you about it first.

 

online and real life flirting

is fun, normal and sexy
part of life

btw....stupid???
how to win friends
and influence people, not

 

You're both terrible people.

 

I'm upset that people like the OP are here, keeps me from being the most hated

 

I'm upset that I'm a fucking idiot. Or something.

Anyway, I flirt like a motherfucker on here and I've been in a monogamous, mostly healthy relationship for nearly 3 years. Daniel has all of my account information, passwords, as do I his, but I've never snooped through anything but his porn. And that's just to see what the hell I'm up against. But I trust that even if he does flirt, he'd never cheat on me, and he trusts the same out of me. If the trust is gone, there's no real foundation for a strong relationship, and obviously, you just broke all sorts of trust issues, so sorry, it's your problem now. You can confront him and hope your relationship doesn't fall to pieces, or keep your mouth shut and hope he doesn't find out you've been snooping in his private shit.

 

^^ sounds like you have something uncommon; a healthy relationship. good for you.
by the way, your sig kicks ass. always makes me chuckle.

I snooped through one of my exes' shit and it lead to nothing but misery. mutual jealousy and insecurity tore up that relationship, and the times I felt jealous after that I made sure I was the better bet and she'd come running back before she even left.