Respect privacy.. But...

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by canadagirlinlove, Feb 19, 2008.

  1. mitten_kitten

    mitten_kitten daisymae

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    You do not have the right to read anyone's message logs.

    If you think someone is cheating on you, ask them about it. If you don't trust them, end it.

    Snooping is no better than cheating.
     
  2. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    it's just fucking flirting for pete's sake. flirting is healthy. stickin your nose in another person's private space is fucked up. i hope he dumps you if you don't get over it.
     
  3. Geonagual

    Geonagual Member

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    yeah, and take that...

    j/k

    no worries, everything usually tends to work out in the end
     
  4. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    good lord, between my family and my friend, i never had any fucking privacy. people always figured my shit was just community property. it's like you never have any fucking place to just live except your own head, and people end up callin you "secretive." jeez. let people have their space.
     
  5. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    Quit reading the person's stuff. Hell I love flirting online, even if I do have a boyfriend. Of course I tell the guy about it, but still. Online flirting is harmless - it's only cheating if the person is fucking someone else without asking or talking to you about it first.
     
  6. ava

    ava Member

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    online and real life flirting

    is fun, normal and sexy
    part of life

    btw....stupid???
    how to win friends
    and influence people, not
     
  7. lode

    lode Banned

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    You're both terrible people.
     
  8. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    I'm upset that people like the OP are here, keeps me from being the most hated
     
  9. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    I'm upset that I'm a fucking idiot. Or something.

    Anyway, I flirt like a motherfucker on here and I've been in a monogamous, mostly healthy relationship for nearly 3 years. Daniel has all of my account information, passwords, as do I his, but I've never snooped through anything but his porn. And that's just to see what the hell I'm up against. But I trust that even if he does flirt, he'd never cheat on me, and he trusts the same out of me. If the trust is gone, there's no real foundation for a strong relationship, and obviously, you just broke all sorts of trust issues, so sorry, it's your problem now. You can confront him and hope your relationship doesn't fall to pieces, or keep your mouth shut and hope he doesn't find out you've been snooping in his private shit.
     
  10. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    ^^ sounds like you have something uncommon; a healthy relationship. good for you.
    by the way, your sig kicks ass. always makes me chuckle.

    I snooped through one of my exes' shit and it lead to nothing but misery. mutual jealousy and insecurity tore up that relationship, and the times I felt jealous after that I made sure I was the better bet and she'd come running back before she even left.
     

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