Remember When Sex Was Dirty?

i remember when sex was pretty, even if it sounded awful.

marriage was a completely separate issue.

 

LMFAO!!!

 

My Mom was open minded I came home calling sex the nasty because my Dads made called it that being born again and all my Mom sat me down and told me sex was an act of love. She said it was a part of life. She gave me the safe sex talk and to tell her if I was having sex so I didn't make her a Grandma when I was in High School.

 

I was a teen in 1967 the summer of love, so sex was never dirty.

 

Sex should be an amazing act of love. Sex is how humans and other animals are made for the most part. Sex is a part of life.

 

i think the title of this thread is a big pointless nothing. what is rarer and more memorable, are those all too infrequent occasions, when it isn't.

 

Sex was certainly dirty when I first went out with Jane in the early 70's. She lived on a farm and a walk involved crossing the peat bogs in the south west of Ireland to get to the nearest town.

 

We've definitely lost something since the good ol' days. Pubic hair for one. Now everyone is bald as a cue ball down there. i like a little fluff here and there; it makes a nice accent.
I know it isn't considered dirty anymore but that's fine. Sex isn't inherently dirty; it was just reserved for adults and therefore considered bad for anyone else. But I'd rather have it considered dirty than everything being so saturated with it that it loses all its impact.

 

I think these days a lot of people have lost the idea, it all seems to be about 'making love', which is fine, but sometimes you just want to get straight down to a good old fuck, no preamble, no pleasantries, just drop em and get on with it.

 

I miss those days. For the last 120 years or so, people have been working tirelessly to make sex less taboo or shameful, being the natural act it is. And for most of history, if you wanted sex, you got married and played safely with your spouse as much as you two wanted. Marriage was the accepted gateway to sex. Not so anymore. Now people get married only to become celibate within a few years. Lots of men refuse to marry or otherwise commit to any relationship because they know that, especially if they get married, they won't be able to enjoy as much sex, if they're able to enjoy it at all. It's strange and perverted to my mind.

During a conversation with a woman a while back she admitted she wasn't having sex with her boyfriend, and I asked her: "What? You couldn't even wait until you were married to defraud the guy?" There's something seriously wrong with these women these days, and this one exhibited a clear pattern of past behavior with this admission. I asked her if she knew anyone who ever shacked up, moved in together, or gotten married so they could practice celibacy and, after a minute of silence she informed me that she'd "never thought of that". Amazing. I told her that, if she keeps doing that, she's going to keep getting the same results every time, since no guy needs her to practice celibacy, and she doesn't need them for that, either. I haven't heard from her since.

Seems that many women don't want a boyfriend or a husband as much as they want a room mate to split the bills with or outright support them so they can do nothing all day.

 

I just remember that it never felt that special. I was always fucked up or in some way depraved, desperate, or devious.

When I look at my sexual exploits I see a litany of errors. But I'm glad because looking forward I see the potential to make something where there was nothing.

 

I've recently entered a relationship with a male crossdresser. I wouldn't call the sex dirty, but it's fucken hot and I guess the concept of what's going on might be considered dirty. Fucken hot but.

 

I remember the time I heard a couple of old women calling me and some friend; dirty hippies. I could never figure that out, but I'm sure they called any sex dirty.

 

at least your errors were in the sex itself. my sexual exploits are a litany of errors consisting of me scaring off a vast majority of potential partners.

 

I did that once and I was surprise how clean it was and no smell at all............Did she clean her self before she met me and if she did how did she know I was going to lick her ass even i didn't know! I was eating her pussy at the time and I just went farther down with out even thinking! I stood there for sometime before I came up for air!

 

Being one of the oldest around these-here parts---I have seen the attitudes change big time since the 40s-50s. No bikinis--one piece bathing suits for the women. Couldn't even say the word pregnant when tv started and continued that way for years. Married couples could not be shown in the same bed. So called porn was greasy little mustached-up pip squeeks with their socks on and the only place I saw it was a National Guard meeting. The credo from parents was --don't use bad language--don't have sex and don't EVEN mention it. No "self respecting women" would ever have tattoos. Adults would NEVER have sex outside of marriage! (only years later did I find out the " adults of the community" were having all kinds of affairs. NEVER-EVER heard of a woman shaving her puss. NO WOMAN would ever hitch hike. Extreme excess of clothing --hoop skirts and layers of slips. Most of all i guess--NO BC PILL. The whole era of the 40s-50s just felt constricting and I'm sure it was even worse before then. Then came the late 60s. Society has never been the same, as much as the blue noses wish it could return to those days.

 

Is sex dirty? Only if you do it right.

 

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I must admit that giving one to a Woman who talks real dirty dirty dirty and me talking back real dirty dirty dirty is the best.
Simply the best.

 

Occasionally I watch the odd porn on Porn Hub.
And I have noticed that there seems to be a lot more bum hole licking than there ever was.
Being a certain age to the best of my knowledge that didn’t really go on in my youth.
And I must admit that even though my first Wife and I did Wife Swapping (Swinging) for eight years I have never had that done to me.

Perhaps someone out there could offer to put that right?!

 

I wonder who invented sex......................lol