Hi ladies, I like to ask you, if you know one of your relatives has a sexual fantasy about you, what is your reaction? And what do you think about him? Do you respect him anymore?
Why it is hard, many guys have sex fantasies about their relatives or families, but it is just fantasy. The hard situation could be hard when we want the fantasy become in reality which could be a sign.
You know, the power of brain is unlimited, which we use just a few percent of it, but even this little amount of power gives us an unlimited though. So fantasy and imagination give us the ultimate traveling through the warriors worlds of our life, which sex is one of them.
Actually, human without fantasy is a dead man. Human is a thoughtful animal, that's why he could control the world including animals. In fact the brain power is the main factor for civilization, otherevis the human remains as a weak animal.
Sharing sex, is an ultimate desire of human, but it needs to minded people, those people who like to share have to understand what they want, otherwise it will be crisis.
Of course, it is a natural phenomenas both in human and animals. I believe sex fantasy is a good method to control the forbidden sex.
Funny thing that in the "ask a woman" section, no women have answered but men have. Lol There were a couple of times that I had intrusive thoughts about family members, they were in no way fantasies, they made me want to vomit. I think if I had known that any of my family members had had fantasies about me it would have creeped me out.
I think it’s a creepy thing to have any sexual thoughts of your relatives. I have a few beautiful cousins but have never thought of them in that way ever.
I have a thing for my wife’s niece. She’s gorgeous. Sometimes I wonder if she knows I do. She’s in her early 40’s .
As you say it is a sexual thought that comes to our mind, so it is a type of feeling not reality. Fantasy is unrealistic thought. We mostly have fantasy about our relative's undies, panties .. etc. So there is no differences between these to type of imagination and feeling.