IMO I see to many older women out there trying to be their 16 yr old daughters. In the way of music, dress, attitude etc. We are all becoming a product of social media AND men are no exception. They want to be the 20 yr old gym junkie juiced up on roids hitting the beach in hopes of landing that 16 yr old girl or to "be" the ufc cage fighter. Both are extremes and a sign of the times when our thinking/ideas are made for us by other people.