Relationships and Solo Sessions

So here is my query for all you guys out there who have been in and out of relationships — Have any of you actually stopped regular solo sex completely once you are in a relationship? When I got married, I did stop for a while. I was getting laid perhaps three times each day in those early months of matrimony, and so I figured I didn’t need to masturbate at all any more. That lasted maybe a couple of months. I was still getting laid multiple times daily, yet I felt something was missing. At last I dragged myself out of bed at 3 am and rubbed one out in the bathroom. Felt much better after. And throughout the 34 years of that marriage, I continued to masturbate once or twice each day, no matter how much partner sex I got from the sweet lady who shared my bed. And so, I am asking, is my experience par for the course, or are there those among you who actually stopped regular self pleasuring (other than when you are on business trips or otherwise separated) when you made that permanent hookup?

 

I personally have masturbated for 62 years since I was 11 years old, being in permanent relationships made no difference I still had to masturbate regularly, even when having regular sex, I'm single now and mastubate more than ever,

 

When I was young I assumed when people were in relationships didn't need to masturbate anymore and the same would be the case for me when I got into one. Well I was wrong. I still masturbated a fair amount on top of sex. No one does it better than yourself. Masturbating more than ever these days and loving it.

 

I might have slowed a bit at first, but nah, I still jerk off as much as when I was single, I just had to get more creative about it. I still do about as much - I think it's gotten better actually. My masturbation has little to do with our relationship - sex is for connection, masturbation is for my sensation and I have had enough practice with it to know how to do it best. Masturbation is the only thing I do 100% for me, well, besides breakfast...

 

Here is another question for you gentlemen, do you replace masturbation for sex? Meaning do you rub one off all the time instead of having sex with a partner who is always wanting sex? Who is always willing to do what you want and how you want it? Would it still be your preference then ?

 

I rub one off because I want to rub one off it’s not a sex replacement but because I’m not having sex right now I guess it is a replacement lol but when I’m with someone I still masterbate but if they want to have sex then I will have sex and enjoy it too it’s just something I do and like doing no other reason then that really

 

Masturbating had never replaced sex for me, to me masturbating is a separate thing entirely which I enjoy personally and privately. At 73 years old and living in a very small English village and my partner (she) is no longer with us masturbation and imagination is all I have,

 

Never. If she wants it, I'll be glad to. I'm not going to turn her down.....

 

No, never. Her satisfaction comes first if she wants it. How about you? Do you ever masturbate instead of taking care of hubby's needs?

 

No no. Sex comes first. But my SO doesn't want it much. But on weekends if I masturbate, I will just edge and save the load in case she does want sex so that I'm still ready to go. If not, that's ok. I still got to make myself feel really really good.

 

Sex with my wife was always my first choice, but sometimes she wasn't available. Masturbation was the second opition, but I used it when necessary. As a note, she also had solo sex when I wasn't available and she was horny.

 

In my first marriage of 25 years I got lots of sex but still masturbated. I'd rub one out just so I could last longer and those times she said "How about just a blow job?"...I was totally game because she would never stop until I came in her mouth so masturbating before made for some really nice 90 minute blow jobs. She eventually figured it out. One evening after sucking my cock for just under an hour I shot my load in her mouth and after swallowing it she says "That wasn't very much, what happened?, did you stroke it out before I sucked you off?. Yeah, babe you caught me. I just wanted a really long blow job. She said...Damn, if you want me to suck two loads out say so...You know I enjoy sucking your cock and will go until you cum no matter how long it takes.

 

Masturbation can never be a replacement for sex, when I'm in a relationship I will always give the maximum amount of pleasure to my partner, but everyone needs that me time to wank as well.

 

Masturbation never replaced sex. Always had great sex at home, but when travel as much as I did I'd pull one off almost every night in the hotel. A great stress reliever and I slept better. Then back home we're going at it.

 

Nope he is top on the list!

 

Thank you for all your comments, I needed confirmation it’s him and not something wrong with me in this situation. Thank you gentlemen

 

I've always masturbated no matter how the relationship status is. Sometimes my best solo tugs are soon after I've got some from a woman. Lot's to remember and think about as I stroke off again.

 

Sex is my first choice. But sometimes my wife if she is too tired for sex, offer to masturbate and satisfy me. I prefer her hands than mine.

 

Are you kidding?!! I've been in many relationships where I've masturabated in front of, on top of, on, my wife/ girlfriend while she was sleeping.

 

I've done it in bed next to my sleeping wife many times . . .