Just wondering if anyone has any experience with Danish culture or has been in a relationship with Danish man/woman. I live in Spain and i met this Danish guy, he is working here for the next 3 years. Things progressed naturally and a bit fast ( for me) and we are supposed to be in a serious relationship that is now only one month old. We have a great time at every date, but sometimes i did feel that he was not making enough effort to contact me between dates. Never made a big deal out of it though, as we both have very busy lives. However, he left one week ago to Denmark to visit his kids. We met before he left, he was very warm and nice, told me he'll miss me, etc. The next day i sent him an SMS - just "how are u did u get there ok?" - and he didnt answer. I was a bit upset as he would always answer. The following day he didnt answer either and i didnt send more messages. By the third day i started to worry that something happened to him, so i sent him a message saying that i have some meetings at work but i will call him when i have a break. This is when he answered that he is OK, but spent his time 100% with his kids, that he's very busy when he goes home, just visiting all his family, but he misses me very much & cant wait to get back to me etc etc. That was 4 days ago, no other contact since then. I was completely shocked by this behaviour, just dont know what to make of it, how can a man that is always very warm & says he's very much into me just cut me out of his life completely for one week?? i just cant get it. And we are supposed to resume as if nothing happened on sunday when he comes back. I would really appreciate it if anyone has any insight on this. To me it sounds as if he's not into me enough or has a wife/girlfriend there ( he claims he's divorced). But i guess i'm still hoping to be saved by some weird cultural difference. Thank you all in advance for your answers!
