life is way too short to settle. Just cut the cord if you want to be single again. Snip, Snip. That may sound harsh, but you gotta do what makes you happy. You only get one life to do it right.
ive been single my whole life and iam 21...I dont think iam ever gonna have a girlfriend besides the ones in my dreams....I too am a little fearful of having a girlfriend...a friend with benefits would be cool but yeah other than that i really dont know.............It looks cool though Crazy cat people...Watch out for the ones with one eye, they will cast spells on you with a simple meow. lol
lol yeah, its so easy to give blunt advice over the internet. If it were me wanting to get out of a relationship, I would end up thinking about it, discussing it with my friends, dragging it out to avoid hurting someone, and maybe a year later finally break up with the person
I've never been in a relationship, and in all honesty, I can't see that situation ever changing. I'm not happy, though never being with anyone is only one reason for that. Though as I get older, that fact does weigh on me more and more.
I've been with my old lady for 8 years, I call her my old lady because she's 10 years older than me, lol. We are both super happy at this point. It hasn't always been that way don't get me wrong, we've had our share of problems, but we have always talked about things and worked on our problems. If I could legally marry her I would, but until then we are married in our hearts and that is all that matters.
If you're not the same person in a relationship as you are single, then I would take that as a pretty bad sign. Seems like you've answered your own question. I can relate. Last year I tried out my first "real" relationship. Things went way too fast, and we moved in together after 3 months. At first things were great, but after a while I noticed that being with her had changed who I was. We were both unhappy but neither of us had the balls to end it. We got comfortable with each other, and things became unhealthy. Thankfully she cheated on me, and that gave me the push to walk away. Now I'm me again and there's a smile where once laid a frown
I have not been in a relationship for a while. I just never really meet people, much less those I have something in common with. I really am not the type of person who needs to be in a relationship, nor have I ever been that way. I would be lying if I said I don't desire sex and having a female companion to cuddle with. In my life I have learned to deal with loneliness. It's part of who I am.
As of a few days ago, single and happy with it. Though I won't say no to a relationship, right now I'm probably better off single...
yeah dude, these relationships sounds like alot of work and iam a pretty lazy dude and the whole hurting someone plays into that..So it looks like we are on the same boat...who knows though it might change one day lol
Single & happy (for 4 years) - no reason for a relationship at the moment unless it's going to make me happier, a hard task when such requires me to hand over the keys to my intimacy and my penis. Rather be single for life than settle and be stuck. Good luck to all of you who have a special union with someone else, those damn relationships are hard work.