ive been dating my girlfriend for going on 8 months I feel she is the one and completely believe in marriage, I gave my virginity to her, not really intentional but im glad it happened, she has slept with 10 other guys which upsets me to a degree but mostly when she or her best friend talk about it, is this normal and am I being unreasonable for feeling Like this? I love her and I trust her but sometimes I feel she puts herself in questionable situations thar someone in a serious relationship shouldn't be in. I'm just really confused and need help any advice out there? ??
Your girlfriend has a past and if that by itself bothers you (and I've been there too) then you should try to get over it. However if they talk about her previous partners in front of you and you have a problem with it then I think you should speak up. I think it's perfectly normal to not want to know any details about your partners past. You do sound like you're a bit full on in the relationship and you 2 may be at different points in your life, I'll let other people comment on that though.
Why are her and her best friend talking about her previous sexual experiences this much, and in front of you? This is odd, have you actually told her that while you accept her sexual history you do not approve of it and would rather not hear about it? If she really cares about you she would understand and respect that. Tell her you wish you were her first.
