Regrets hearing the details of your wive's past sex?

Mate, you should discuss with her to be the one in her ass.

 

Having known my wife since college I am aware of her history and she is aware of mine. Also I know my fwb for 30 years and my fb for 20. Their experiences and even knowing many of their partners turns me on all the time. I respect some have different opinions and feelings about this but for me knowing their mouths were on other cocks or other cocks were in them is a major turn on

 

While I believe there is a little bit of a fear factor for anyone, in terms of maybe finding some wild things out you wouldn’t have your spouse pegged for, I think communication around past sex is fine as long as both are 100% honest and both are 100% engaged in discussing. Definitely no regrets in chatting with my wife about, and it was those discussions that ended up leading to a discovery of something we both had. While my wife and I have only been married ten years (she’s 57 and I’m 51 and we are both white), it brings me back to when we were first dating. We sort of got into this discussion around previous partners very loosely, but she kept coming back to if I’d been with an Asian girl or with a Latino girl or a black girl etc. I answered honestly but she was hesitant to divulge her side for some reason, so the conversation went elsewhere as I didn’t want to be pushy. Fast forward to some time shortly after we got married, we had just finished a session and she circled back to past lovers, this time she wanted to know specifics around just the black girls I’d been with, dated or just hookups etc., how many, how many times, body types, things we did, the whole thing. I was honest as descriptive sex chat is very enthralling to me. She listened and was turned on by all I had to say as she had this very sexy and almost devilish look on her face as she continued to tweak her nipples the whole time. During my explanations I made a marked point of telling her that I’ve always had an interracial fetish and intense attraction to black folks, to which she didn’t say anything or bat an eye, just smiled. When I finished my ramble I figured I’d attempt it again, and reciprocate the question and asked if she was with any black men, and honestly I was thinking not given that I knew her last several long term relationship boyfriends, and none of them were black. Well, was I WRONG! She took a few deep breaths, and then began to divulge that she too has a VERY strong attraction to black men. For the 20 years prior to us getting together, she was collecting black fuck buddies. So while it appeared to her family and friends she was happily engaged in her relationships and leading a normal life, she was feeding her fetish of riding and blowing big black cock almost weekly. She said it became like an addiction, and despite trying to engage with her partners at home, she wasn’t being near satisfied so this fuelled it more. To this I was completely shocked as it’s just not something I thought she would be capable of doing. After her very lengthy and descriptive summary of her dealings with a LOT of black guys, we were both so turned on, we engaged in round two. Up till recently when the menopause wagon has ruined my wife’s sex life completely, we had grown our sex lives and happily included others. To ensure we were both happy, and to be forthwith with no sneaking on the side, we’d have black men over where she was able to suck, fuck and carry out all her kinks right in front of me, which in the end was the best of both worlds as I have the interracial desire bad and loved seeing her blow and ride those bbc’s. So, for me it was great to discuss and have no regrets.