yes definitely. swallowing doctrine from an organized religion is a huge red flag for me. but i'm a spiritual person so anyone who doesn't explore their own spirituality on their own terms is a red flag for me as well
This one is probably just me being picky, but I can't stand it when a girlfriend likes shitty music. Especially driving in the car, when they listen to their music. You just have to sit there and take, it makes me wanna drive into a brick wall, I can't stand being forced to listen to shitty music. It's a major peeve of mine.
Music taste completely the opposite of mine may be a red flag for me too. I can be very picky, but there are a few definite things that, although wouldn't necessarily make for a bad relationship, would be a red flag.
a lot of religious people don't want to get serious with someone outside of their religion, so its not that messed up. i dont want to date someone thats going to try to convert me before they get serious with me. word to that. my ex used to make me listen to prince all the time.
It's not as much a red flag, at least for me, but if the other person in the relationship is not on the same page sexually, it can often lead to the end of the relationship. If they really want to do things you don't, or the other way around, it doesn't usually work.
i wasnt trying to change myself, i was wondering about whether the red flags that came up with a person im seeing are enough to end it.