That is my purse and coat, I put there for photo.....Yeah, I should have worn a 2 inch mini skirt, some high heel stilettos and a bra top to go to the golden oldies concert instead....while it was 30 degrees outside. I do dress for comfort ...not to please anyone....but myself.
Since I'm the only one who suggested wearing a dress, I'm gonna respond to this. I suggested a dress because when I got out that's what I like to wear and it makes me feel great. I don't wear dresses or any other clothing for anyone but myself. Also, why would I want to go out somewhere looking like I'm ready for bed? I never said anything about mini skirts or heels. I guess I should have kept the dress comment to myself though because I should just respect that some people like to go out looking like frumps, and that makes them comfortable.
..Furthermore, I don't care what anyone wears. The dress was just a suggestion because I think women should feel beautiful but of course I'm going to defend myself after someone makes it seem I was suggesting hooker skirt & heels to please someone else, more than likely men.
I never said that inferring you......or inferring anyone, for that matter....and never called you any names....frump.....hmmmmppppphhhhh....so be it.
Sorry to ask but why do you take everything so ridicilously personal when it clearly isn't ment to be taken that way?
If you follow the conversation, it does seem directed to me. And I wasn't directly calling you a frump. I was just referring to frumps in general.
My comment was snide to mean....then I would get all the "right" kind of attention....the hooker dress code....It was tongue and cheek.
I don't think anyone meant to be rude. And of course people want to see photos, and of course people are going to be observant about them.
I noticed some people like to do their dirty...make fun at someone else's expense, and then when that person does not tolerate it anymore...they are taking things too personally or paranoid or whatever...What an interesting phenomena.
Well to be fair, people thought you came across a bit paranoid and overly sensitive from the beginning. That's why I asked, not just because this one time.