Hi, I'm here looking for some help. I'm 44 years old and I'm married. I never had an orgasm until a few weeks ago when I woke up from a dream and felt something I'd never felt before. It only lasted a few moments after I woke up, but it was definitely an orgasm. Here's the thing, I'm married to a man and I've never been able to have an orgasm with a man or by myself using my fingers or toys. I had resigned myself that I just would never have one. So I have this dream that a woman is licking me while I'm kissing another woman and I wake up having an ogasm. I've been thinking about it a lot and had a few more dreams and one more orgasm, which was stronger and lasted longer after I woke up. And now I'm thinking about women while having sex with my husband, but still can't get there. I'd like to explore the possibility of having more orgasms but I'm not sure if I should tell my husband. I think it might hurt his feelings and he knows I've never had one before and I haven't told him about the dreams I've been having. Should I explore this, or just try and forget it and move on?
Hi there. Have you thought seriously about having sex with a woman?It may be just what youre looking for given the way your dreams are making you feel. It would mean being unfaithful of course but can you fight such strong desires indefinitely?
