As long as a man doesn’t do too much of any of the things you mentioned, that’s alright. If he does- he becomes something else.
My understand is the the I feel thing has always been present in men... rather than stating they show it. I feel statements are used in a calming manner mostly, actually supressing. feeling, words instead of actions... I feel sad, well, great, where are the tears? I feel angry, well great, where is the yelling? I feel frustrated all said 8n the same tone. That’s funny, well great, where is the laughter. I feel happy said without a smile. men In the past SHOWED their feelings and always have had them. So sure, men don’t cry, yes they do but held back for private moments, I feel powerless. ... women hold back tears too, for being in private, excusing themselves to do it in the bathroom. It is more than just words. Ie.... I got fired from my job, do you think a man is not feeling sad if this happens? Suck it up... move on... find another, do what you have to do. Or, I was rejected, it hurt my feelings, well not really me, rejection doesn’t bother me, it is a part of life. Can’t force people to accept others. But yeah, your feelings don’t always matter.