Rape or something like it

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by lakeoffire, Aug 1, 2004.

  1. lakeoffire

    lakeoffire Live.Laugh.Fuck.

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    love is so damn complicated!
     
  2. louray

    louray Member

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    ok suicide will be your last option because im sure that all this isn't worth losing your life over....you just need to sit him down and tell him the truth....i mean everything that was said.....trust me it's better than killing yourself and im sure all these girls agree with me when i say that you can still find other fish in the sea....i know that you may love this guy but if he doesn't believe you then there's nothing you can do about it and how bad do you think he'll feel if you killed yourself;)
     
  3. louray

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    BROS BEFORE HOES....................


    :) CHICKS B4 DICKS:)
     
  4. Megan

    Megan Member

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    I hate abusive men. They are lackin somethin in life. Bob is very unloved and i can see why. Leave both of them alone. If Dan isnt man enough to say somethin to Dan there is no way he can love you with all his heart. YOu can find a man that will love you and protect you.
     
  5. Maggie Sugar

    Maggie Sugar Senior Member

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    Any man who had this attitude (especially one who referred to all womyn as "hos") would never get a date with me. I don't give misogynists like this the time of day.

    WOMYN! Why do you tolertate this from some boys. Take a stand and refuse to date (or do anything else) with these stupid womyn haters. How do you think a boy who thinks like this will treat you in the long run?

    Good men don't call womyn whores. PERIOD.
     
  6. sugrmag

    sugrmag Uber Nerd

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    Yeah, I had a boyfriend who had tears in his eyes when he was apologizing to me for hitting me while I was pregnant. Needless to say, he is no longer my boyfriend.

    So, he believes that his friend tried to rape you, but doesn't want to do anything about it? Fuck that. It doesn't matter how long you are together or how much you "feel" love from him. Any man that doesn't care about his girlfriend being sexually assualted is a piece of shit. Get away from him. You have enough on your plate right now without a boyfriend who cares more about a rapist friend then the woman he loves.
     
  7. dawn_sky

    dawn_sky Senior Member

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    There is when we're talking about petty shit. Just because you don't like the friend, think he's rude or dorky or whatever, is no justification to expect him to stop being friends with this guy. Sexual assualt, however, IS more than ample justification to expect some reaction. If my boyfriend had a bestfriend who tried something like this on me, that "best friend" would be missing a couple of kneecaps (if he was lucky) & would be warned to never come near either of us again.

    That this guy will remain friends with such a complete piece of shit says something about your boyfriend. Ever heard that saying "birds of a feather flock together"? If he loved you, he would want to protect you... Isn't that what touched you about him crying when you told him about your self mutilation? That it felt like he would prevent it if he could? So why hasn't he told Bob to stay far far away from you, to never talk to either you or him again, etc.? It seems to me that he doesn't care about you as much as you want to believe...
     

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