I've been reading some other posts, and I has me questioning. When you masturbate, do you take your time? Or do you hurry and cum? I understand that the situation might have something to do with it, but what is the way people prefer. When I was a teen I wanted to cum as fast as I could. Now that I'm in my 20s, I really love taking my time. I will look at some nudes, stroke a little, get close but not finish, then read some forums, then jerk some more. I can go on like that for 2-3 hours before I finally have to finish. No i don't stay hard the whole time, but I really love doing it this way when i have the time. Anyone else?
All depends. Sometimes you just need to explode so you can move onto other things. Other times you can spend an hour, bouncing around from porn to porn, get close and switch off. And sometimes you can blast off, continue to mess around and keep blasting off for as long as you can. As you said all depends on the situation and what's all at play. Basically I don't think there's a wrong way...
Sometimes I edge for a while & then go for it - seems to produce more cum ? But usually I just masturbate or spend time placing metal penis rings on my genitals to help me feel even hornier.
The most I ever hold off is like ten minutes. I never feel the need for it to go longer, the release is the best part... in my clearly-sensuality-deprived little opinion haha. I have other things I could be doing instead, really.
Depends on how much time i have, if i only have 5 min I will get the job done in that time, but if i have longer I will usually take the time and enjoy it longer.
Similar to what others have said: depends on my mood/depends how much time I have. I've gotten myself off really fast before but have also had some marathon jackoff sessions. Probably the most extreme was one night one weekend when I was stroking and edging from roughly 10 PM to about 2:45 AM. After about an hour I started wondering how long I could work a single erection before either losing arousal or climaxing and not being able to get it up again. Turns out it was almost 5 hours! But I rarely have the time to do that sort of thing.
Like others have posted, I do both. Sometimes a quick one in the shower just for release. When time and opportunity allows, though, a couple of hours of fantasies and edging and stroking produces the much better, blurred-vision and clenched-fingers kind of cum. Those delayed ejaculations sometimes end up with more cum, but are much more intense, however much there is.
I liked to take my time too, it feels so good while stroking so why rush it, even stop for a couple of minutes, just play. The longer it take the better the orgasm I find...
I can't do any type of ring. It makes my penis feel like it's going to explode, and not in a good way. But I do admit what you're saying there. The more I edge, and the longer I masturbate, the more pulses I feel during orgasm, and with each pulse there is a nice delivery of cum. I think it's worth the wait, and effort.
Yeah... damn the clock. If I could have any super power, it would be to freeze time. Think of all the extra naps and orgasms I could have?!
It totally depends. Sometimes I can't wait to just get at it. Take a look at my blog that I started about 18 months ago, I've posted one update about a short one and one where I took my time http://onewank.blogspot.co.uk
As other members have stated, it all depends on the circumstances, some times a quickie is fine, but if at all possible a slow build up is great. My personal favourite is a result of sleeping in dorm type rooms in the military, discreet masturbation is essential, otherwise your comrades will give you hell about your nocturnal antics! Firstly you have to have something to catch the cum, wads of tissues, or the old sock will do, then you have to lie on your side (depending on if you are left or right handed) then long deliberate strokes are called for, with extra pressure applied at the bottom of the down stroke, short, brisk "jacking" strokes are out of the question as they are likely to create a noise with the bed sheets. I used to count the strokes, and depending on how long since my last ejaculation, I could get off in anything from 175 to 250 long strokes, you have to resist breaking into a gallop as you approach the climax. The slow build up and resulting cum are worth the effort, I maintain the stroking until the last drop has been expelled. I was never discovered by my room mates.!
It really depends how much time i have. Empty house for hours- drag it out and enjoy. Other times i just need the release.
