Questions for Bi men

Oh yeah, my wife joins our buddy and I for long suck sessions too. We really enjoy sucking together and kissing with the head of his cock between our lips.

 

My transition into the Bi life started pretty much the way you explained. I was going through a dry spell with girls. I was watching a lot of straight porn and trying to chat with girls in chat rooms.

The straight porn DID get boring and repetitive and girls weren't very adventurous in the chat rooms. So, I wandered into the gay chat room and it was full of horny guys. I thought "I found my people." I enjoy talking to anyone that is horny (even guys). We can talk about hot girls, our cocks, and other fantasies. I also explored the gay porn and REALLY found an appreciation for the look of cocks. I can look at one cock after the next (just like I can with vagina).

I eventually got the nerve to meet a guy and we had a good time. I've enjoyed my time with guys either online or in person.

 

Damn that’s hot!

 

Same for me, I just became fascinated with cocks, first looking at them, then touching them, then was sucked by a guy, and that made me really want to suck a dick. I did, still do, and I love it

 

You are all wrong and you are all correct!
I see life as a continuous series of experiences, wrong to some,right to others.
My life revolves around a happy relationship and a good sex life with her,I was straight and now I'm bisexual. Nothing she has done or not done has caused my sexuality change,I put it down to a natural change. Every day I see women and I think I'd love to sleep with them,then I start noticing men more often until it's in my mind as a normality, the guys at the gym showers now turn my head,I'm now purposely looking because I find their body's attractive,and the sight of their Cocks gets me aroused. For me it's a nature change,I'm 50 50 and it's feels so natural how can it be anything else ☺

 

I agree, it just seemed natural to me too. It felt very natural to have a dick in my mouth.

 

I totally agree with you Chris. Women have always and will always turn on my arousal switch but over time I've also become aroused when viewing a nice cock. It was an evolution for me that just felt more and more natural as my comfort level became more and more relaxed with each male/male experience. I kept it hidden in my first marriage of 25 years and our sex life was healthy but it just happened. I'm re-married now to a woman who understands and accepts who I am. We also have a male lover whom we share some times which has made me even more comfortable with who I am and no longer needing to hide it. I can now experience it openly with her acceptance and involvement some times. Our relationship is stronger because of my wife accepting it. She knows she'll always be #1 with me and assured I'm not out hooking up behind her back. She enjoys the attention he and I give her as well.

 

For me it is just the huge erotic turn on sucking a cock and especially feeling the cum filling my mouth.
Really all about me and not that he is enjoying it or getting off.
Stroking myself as sucking I am wrapped up in my own pleasure and feeling and tasting his load in my mouth pushes me over and makes me blow.
Writing this it sounds a bit selfish but that’s the truth in that it’s all about fulfilling my desire and getting me off.
Hence I’m not into getting sucked by another guy or any other MM sex.
Me sucking and swallowing is everything and sure is fun

 

I canunderstand this, I often just suck a guy as I love the erotic thrill of it, knowing what I am doing.

 

I can relate, I seem to go into a trance when sucking a guys cock. I've hooked up with a lot of married men just wanting/needing a blowjob. Sadly their wives didn't provide orally to their liking so they'd contact me and I was more than eager to provide for them. What every one of them wanted the most was to cum in the mouth that's sucking their cock and none of their wives could deep throat them either. I found it very satisfying knowing I was their personal cock sucker and rarely did I not answer their call. I could never understand why their wives neglected them this way, they all had real big, sexy cocks too.

 

I personally am not that into porn.. for me it was the curiosity of turning a guy on!! I’ve turned loads of women on and though hey how sexy it would be to make a guy come!! K went on few websites met up and hey loved the straight guy sucking him and I loved it even more!! Not looked back since.

 

My first bi or gay experience was with an older guy. I would say I just like big strong men. Now I prefer to be with a guy when my wife is with us.

 

As I’m older I’ve had time to reflect on this. I’ve been Bi since puberty I’m certain. But in my life my desires have been fluid. I’m a man inexperienced with men though, really because of the peer pressure of having straight friends, and not really understanding how to approach men, and needing/wanting another bisexual man, not a gay man. In college a lesbian friend offered to take me to a gay bar after I told her about my same sex desires which were strong at that time. It just didn’t feel like me, the whole gay scene. And in the mid 80’s it just all felt too dangerous, call it AIDSphobia I guess.

 

My situation has been much the same, and I soon discovered that the gay scene was, from that perspective, just a bit too extreme for me & the situation I'm in, so I have focused (after the 'new' wore off!) on bisexual men (like myself), and married men almost exclusively, since I want my loving bareback, complete with all the cum my lover can pour out deep inside me, thinking (hoping!) they're safer than their gay counterpart. More in common, more compatible ...

 

I was hit on and "eye-fucked" by many gay men in the 80's...my wife at the time thought it was sexy to have a husband that men wanted. I wanted to act out my sexual desires back then but like you was really worried about bringing something home...STD, or worse AIDS. In the mid to late 90's I started enjoying oral sex with other married men and just couldn't seem to get enough cock. I was hooking up with guys 2-3 times a week and still enjoying a fabulous sex life with my wife. She would have never understood...time fly's by. Now in my 2nd marriage she accepts that I'm bisexual as we have a couple we're sexually involved with almost monthly. It started with just him, myself, and my wife but over time his wife became involved. Now we're four bisexuals enjoying each other...it's a fabulous situation for all of us.

 

One can only be envious. My spouse would do this…never.

 

My wife had stated she'd never been with a woman sexually and had no real desire to do so. The first evening Tom brought his wife over I was sucking his cock, my wife was sucking mine, and Carol went down on my wife and had what she said was an amazing orgasm. Some time later that evening while Tom and I were 69 sucking I glanced over to see my wife eating Carols pussy and enjoying it. My wife now enjoys having all out sex with all three of us. To witness my wife and Carol in the 69 position is so damn hot too.

 

I'm 63 and bi. You have hit the proverbial nail on the head with your answer. I'm everything you described in your answer. I love my wife of 32 years but there is no sex there. I've had a couple of male FWBs in the last 5 years. One was a close friend that we nolonger talk. Don't miss him but sure miss his huge cock. To me it's just sex and that's all it is. He thought it was something more. Great answer BTW.

 

I'm 63, still married but just like you.

 

NO. I actually knew I was sexually interested in guys before females. It was just the OPPOSITE form me. Ive even questioned wether or not I might even be gay SEVERAL times... But NOPE, I'm DEFINITELY bisexual