Questions for Bi men

Do you think you became Bi because you weren’t getting enough sex with your woman or any woman for that matter?
I know that men are “generally” hornier than women and they need sex! Some men watch porn and some don’t but “usually”men that aren’t getting regular sex watch more porn.
After watching many types of porn it can get repetitive and boring and sometimes men will eventually watch gay porn to get off, which then installs new fantases in their head.
This goes for women too, whatever the fantasy is, you will think about it over and over until you live it in real life.
I’m just trying to figure out what starts the whole Bi thing.

 

Mine first started just a year or so after I married. When I would fuck my wife, looking down at her and all the things that my hard, slippery dick plunging in & out of her did to her, I began to wonder how it felt to be on the receiving end of all that man-lust, to have his hard dick inside MY open body, doing that to ME ...

 

You may have hit on a valid point. I have known 2 guys who turned to a gay lifestyle after their marriage broke down, but I have no knowledge of their previous sexual behavior. Life is not as simple and clearcut as we like to imagine.

 

No I’m not writing a book lol
I’m just full of curiosity! I love asking questions!

 

I read somewhere that older men will often resort to sex with men because they don’t have luck finding women that will have sex with them. The women their age don’t want sex and the younger ones don’t want old guys.
Therefore, a horny man will do what he needs to do to get off.

 

Oh, now I see the point of this thread, you want to pretend young women dont want older men

And try and convince the guys not quite old enough yet

 

I think you have to break the term down a couple of ways for an answer. Is the male into full intimate contact? Or is he just into sex with genetals and butt or is he just kinda curious about it? I'm quessing that as we age we start seeing ourselves more vulnerable to our shorter days ahead. We tend to start thinking about our bucket list. The wife isn't on board anymore. She prefers her time with family, grandchildren and friends. Sex becomes old and non existent. All normal part of life. It triggers a mans mind to explore new ways such as a new car or boat or something. We are all born to be breeders per say to carry on life. That of course is the reason sex feels good. To entice us to breed. We are human, we enjoy the feeling and have altered it to our needs through time in many ways. Saying this....I believe many men fall between curious and just genital sex for pleasure we enjoy. Its a vessel for enjoyment and as we age we are less inhibited in our ways. Today's society is more accepting of same gender sex. Also playing a factor. This is only my opinion. No way a professional view. I think you'll find as many reasons why is there is men doing it.

 

I don't get a whole lot of sex but rather than go for guys I just masturbate.

 

No lol. That was a quote from something I read somewhere else. Personally, I like older men, but I’m not really of the norm, so I don’t count LOL

 

For me I have always had an attraction to the genitalia of men. Regardless of how much sex I was havening with women. With women Its all of them, the whole package. I didn’t act on the attraction until later in life when I wasn’t getting much at home.
for the man I meet with its purely an answer to what he isn’t getting at home.

 

I am not bi, but I can provide my 2 cents.
There are truly bi-sexual men, those who had sexual attraction to both from the get go, or quite early on.
But it seems you are interested in those who "turned bi"...
I believe porn has induced a LOT of behavior in both sexes that was not as prevalent before.
Porn watching evolves. You start watching mostly conventional things, and for men that includes lesbian sex and girl solo sessions.
At one point curiosity encourages wandering into gay porn, looking around...maybe seeing a feminine'ish young man performing oral sex and thinking maybe that wouldn't be all that bad.
Watching tranny sex, t-girls "straight" guys getting pegged by a tranny and so forth. Pretty soon he is masturbating to straight up gay sex.
At the same time, like many, his marriage is boring. His wife does not satisfy him (yes there are two sides of this, but speaking only his side now) or like all too many 20 plus year marriages they are barely having sex at all...or none at all.
All of that desire and no where to point it.

 

All bery valid points.

 

I lived it.
I was married for 20 plus years to the wrong person. It happens.
Her sex drive was never as high as mine, even at the start. But once we got into our 40's...she dropped off. And I mean dropped off. First it was weeks without sex, then months, then years.
I started watching way too much porn, it was all I had. And it started taking me down a bad road. Several of them. Thank God I saw it.
That was several years ago, I have since remarried and my life is exponentially better....and my sex life as well.
It was eye opening to say the least the sheer number of men and women I have met and talked to my age who went through the same thing. There are an uncanny number of people living in quiet desperation.

 

I became bi because I love both genders always have and always will

 

I am bi from the age of 13 I love guys and girls started with my 4 mates we are all married now

 

Did you marry a younger woman the second time?
I hear about it a lot too, how the sex dies off after so many years. I really don’t want that to happen.
Do men lose their drive like women or is it just a boredom thing?

 

She is only 2 years younger...so no real difference.
Men can lose their drive in their late 40's and up if they are among the unfortunate whose T levels have dipped low enough to affect it.
Speaking for myself, I have not. My ideal sex life would be intercourse 2-3 times a week, and "play time sex" once a week and masturbation by myself a couple times a week.
My ex-wife by the time we hit 40, would have been happy with once or twice a month...by 45...none at all. The frustration of that developed into much larger problems. I think that is the cause of a great many dead marriages.

 

The Landscape is littered with divorced post menopausal women, who are interested only in an emotional relationship, not a physical one. Life is complicated.

 

That sucks, seems unfair for both really.. I’m determined to never let that happen!

 

While I have not crossed that Rubicon your analysis is imho spot on!

 

guys are boring. chicks with dicks is more my cup of t-s.