I feel it is a good thing when beginning a new relationship to ask your new partner to put you in contact with their ex. When you ask them to do this, look into their eyes. That in itself will tell you an entire story. So, would you?
No way! Any new relationship is a leap of faith. You must each earn and learn trust. There is always drama in old relationships. How you handle it says a lot about “You”.
Why is it then that I feel that if she asked for a hook up with my ex i'd say sure. I got nothing to hide. They cheated on me and copped out to the fact that I was easy to fool. I wonder if they would be that honest to them. What is your reason for keeping it a secret?