Question for you...

Darn, cause I had an idea. hehehe

 

Well, I would sell my undies online lol

 

hehe,

eh... how much?

 

I've sold pairs for $60

 

Seriously?

It wouldn't surprise me. Not that you sold them that someone bought used undies off the net...

ricockulous.

 

I think you're going to be okay. You sound like a great communicator, and as long as he's a listener... i think he will get the point: that you're crazy about him and love sex, you just don't get off from oral.

That's okay; nothing to do with him. I think if you stress this and look for things you do get off from, you'll be fine.

 

i.e. sex. Sex is GOOD

 

I am guessing that sex with you is AMAZING.

 

You'd be right, lol!! Not right now though, I'm so sore, I have TERRIBLE SUNBURN

 

That's not cool.

Although I don't mind when I get a daughter burn...





























Yes.

I realize how high the cheese factor is.

It's just how I roll.

 

I like the way you roll, it makes me laugh.

 

I am pretty funny, but looks aren't everything.

 

LMAO. Are you a good painter? I'm painting my house today, could use help lol

 

Okay...I didn't read through all these posts so I might be repeating something here.

A lot of men, myself included, have a bad habit of thinking of sex as some kind of competition...like how quick can I make her cum and how often. I think it's because orgasm is pretty much a given for us. It's almost too easy...friction + penis = cum.

Some women just don't orgasm easily. I guess some don't at all...a concept I find difficult to grasp.

I'm assuming you can make yourself orgasm, correct? Maybe work that into foreplay...let him caress, kiss and nibble on the rest of your body while you masturbate. Just a thought.

Just keep talking to him about it. Communication is the key in almost any situation. You should still experiment though...I'm almost certain you'll eventually hit on something that works for you.

 

I'm fine with everything but oral. Oral just isnt interesting to me

 

I am a great painter. I have had more practice than I ever wanted. My first two jobs - I almost singlehandedly painted a veterinary clinic, and later a warehouse. We painted the upstairs of our first house over a weekend with lots of friends and family. We also painted out interior walls of our house before we moved in over several weeks. I have lots of practice, but no desire to paint anything else.

And back on topic... What is your man REALLY likes giving oral? Is it something that bothers you, or just something that doesn't do anything for you?

Can you put up with it as part of foreplay?

(No I am not taking notes...)

 

You are so taking notes!

Oral is fine, but I rarely get off. The only time it feels good is when I'm on my rag. Which he doesn't want to do (understandable). I almost find it frustraiting, because it's this really dull feeling. It almost gets annoying.

I think it just annoyes him that I'm not like writhing all over the bed.

 

have you tried it with an ice cube in his mouth or if he sips from an ice cold drink ?
or maybe a menthol sweet ?
it might help heighten the sensation for you.

 

I really haven't, something to try.

 

or ... you know that moondust stuff that crackles on your tongue ?
imagine what it would feel like if it popped and crackled on you lol.

good luck with it !