I don't know how else to add to it other than the fact that she contracts. I can feel my penis being squeezed and then released. That goes for both vaginal and anal orgasms. ------ Edit: Although I have been with women who told me they came without my noticing it, and vice-versa. There were times when I thought they had had an orgasm but they told me they didn't. I think I can tell most of the time, though.
I would have say to it's the best feeling in the world. We always start with oral sex, actually I can't always get her off without a bit of oral. I do that until she is well aroused. We start off with slow strokes, slowly increase the speed, with the longest strokes possible. When she's about to cum she pulls me in as deep as possible, and change to a grinding motion. I feel her muscles contracting around the base of my penis. No matter how hard I try I can't hold off shooting my load, it's as if her pussy was milking my dick. I often feel has if I got off too soon, but as long as she's happy. That's all that matters. I guess it feels so good I hate for it to end.
Wow, jimandjan, I loved your response. I wanted to ask, does your partner need clitoral stimulation during penetration to orgasm, or can she orgasm from penetration alone? Also, I guarantee that she's happy because cumming with a man inside of you is the best feeling in the world for a woman, too
At times she plays with her clit during penetration, but not always. A few times in group sex, she's had a tongue working on her clit while taking a penis. I don't feel comfortable, getting that close to another man, so she don't get that pleasure very often.
I totally understand not being comfortable with another man being that close. Would she be comfortable with a woman stimulating her orally? I've had that happen while a man was penetrating me and it was beyond amazing. Also, sorry for the random, nosy questions; I'm endlessly curious about different people's experiences with sex I think that the way you previously described of having sex with her (having oral stimulation, without orgasm, then penetrating her with long, slowly quickening, strokes) is something I would like to try. It sounds amazing!!! And, in case anyone is interested: from a woman's perspective, cumming with a man thrusting inside of you is... beyond words pleasurable. It's sort of like, if I'm masturbating by just rubbing my clit, I'm stimulating myself from the outside and it feels really, really, really good when I cum, but with a man inside of me, it's so intensely pleasurable that I literally can't control my body or the sounds I make because the stimulation is both on the outside AND the inside... soooooo awesome. Now I'm horny I'm not normally a screamer, but I am when I have the pleasure of cumming around a nice hard cock
trying to describe this is like trying to describe the taste of chocolate to someone. My idea might be very different to yours, but here goes..... Like what has been mentioned above, oral sex is very important in my current relationship, both because I absolutely love tasting my girl and because she cant seem to get enough. then once we have moved on I try to control myself as best I can thrusting slowly and deeply. When she is beginning to build towards orgasm we often change position so that she can control the pace. Girl on top (yay!) and I can feel how her muscles start to squeeze and pulse around my cock. She often flexes so hard that I imagine I can feel how every inch of my cock is moulded into her.
It depends on the situation for me. *Most* of the time her orgasms come after a good amount of foreplay, some intense slow-ish sex, etc and she likes it when I'm as deep as I can be inside her, so she can feel the tip of me gently against her cervix, when I'm that deep I can feel her squeeze me really hard around bottom of my shaft but also some squeezing around my tip. Sometimes, if we're lucky, we can get the tip of my behind her cervix around the "A-spot" and if I'm there I can feel an incredible pulsing/squeezing/moving action. So, long story short, I feel her squeeze me in slow rhythmic motions around the shaft of me, depending on how deep we are. She likes me to move ever so slowly when she comes (mostly) so I'm able to really feel it. Not so sure it'd be the same way if I was just pounding her like I see in porn. Neither of us like that anyway. We like it slower, more intense, firm. Yum!
I've been with seven different women. I've never felt any changes with any of them. Sometimes their pussy is wetter than others. But I've never felt the contractions and all of that. Maybe I've never given one? I had no idea they had contractions and all of that. WOW!!! Hmm...
When my wife is having an orgasm, she sure tightens up on my penis & sometimes it pushes it out of her.
That or all the girl's you've been with didn't exercise their pelvic floor muscles and so the muscles that are responsible for the squeezing, are so weak their vagina can't do it.
There are sever different types of orgasms a woman can have each with different levels of pleasure I've been with a few wemon in my life looking to give what iv her was the best orgasm that a woman could have plus that's what gets me off the most making my partner cum I am able to get my wife off verry well and have found what I was looking for in her and its amazing wen we start ill start by getting her aroused by teasing touching kissing and licking around the nipples and her pussy till she starts to moan then when I finaly do stimulat the nipples I looks like a rush of pleasure runs through her I will slowly kiss down to her pussy and oraly make her cum that's the external orgasm when I first penetrate her it is slow and not the full lingth and slowly move to deeper and longer strokes till I get her to cum agean when she cums when I'm inside her I can feal it and its verry hard to hold back some times I can't but its when she climes ontop of me where the magic starts she works her self on my cock I can tell when she is close because she will lean forwad and put her hands down to brace her self I put my hands on her ass to hold her up and thrust under her wile she stays still I keep a good pace deep long strokes till the point that she is just about to cum then I will pick the pace up to a verry fast deep hard trust long strokes at this point her body is pritty much locked in the possion she is in every muscle starts to contract or at least it felas that way for me she starts to cum so hard she squirts literally squirts all over my cock and me as I keep my pace this can happen more than once it depends on when I cum she has came like that three time befor I came and after that touch is verry sensative to her simply kissing her clit can make her cum and those are the two orgasems iv been looking to give a woman the squirting and the multipule I was married to my wife for 3 years befor I found a the way to get her there and when I did do that for her the first time she was like a crack addict wanting more
If cum means orgasm then this is what it feels like: Both partners are very sweaty but its not really sweat and I could skim that water off her back. Your skin is very slippery so much so you can slide up and down on each others body. Damp hair like you just got out of the shower and towel dried your hair. When I finally entered her after hours of foreplay the slow rhythmic thrusting was very pleasurable. Gradually I could feel her vaginal barrel start to constrict around the shaft of my cock which is quite scarey if you don't know what is happening. I man can feel the side of your vaginal barrel as I slide in and out of her wet slippery and so smooth vagina. The feeling of this stimulation is incredibly pleasurable and the pleasure builds up and up and up. At the onset of a womens orgasm the vaginal barrel constricts around a mans penis so that when the head of his penis get to the end of her vagina the mans knob feels like its in a cavity and every time one withdraws you feel this very intense wave of pleasure around the coroner of ones penis. As the constriction gets tighter so to does the very intense pleasure until finally the penis is almost locked into the vagina. As this pleasure keeps building up inside us our testicles are rising up towards the base of our penis until we reach our own sexual peak until finally we ejaculate which is the most incredible feeling - so pleasurable its overwhelming. As the ejaculate is spurting out you get these incredible waves of intense pleasure on every squirt !!! So the pumping of the ejaculate into the vagina is just amazing.
It is a wonderful feeling when your in your woman and she begins to climax... her g-spot engorges and grips you like a hand and then when she begins to orgasm I can feel her cervix drop down and make contact and her uterus pumps and sucks at the same time.... can't keep from going over the cliff with her. WHAT AN AWESOME DRAINED FEELING
