Ok. do you like to watch your man masturbate? if so by hand or with toys? do you like to watch him if he was pumping his dick? what turns you on the most. watching him wank or cuming ??
I like to watch him occasionally. No toys. Don't understand what you mean by "pumping". Is that a toy reference? I especially like the end.
Not really, I don't think anyway, never seen my guy do himself, usually that's me doing things to him and he doesn't take over so it must be ok. He doesn't need to pump if you mean one of those things that makes it bigger. He came to me as he did and seriously no guy I have been with has ever been too small and yet most of them have been quite average and satisfying. But as I always say it's not about penis size, it's about him knowing how to please with it and his other stuff like his mind, how he cares, offers his love and affection during and in the average day. If he played with himself I would have to wonder what I was doing wrong since there is hardly a day he can't have what he wants from me.
I just discovered that my guy will come quite nicely just by my playing with his nipples... it was pretty cool to watch him shoot without any help from me, other than his tits.
I have zero interest in watching any guy, including my guy, masturbate. It just doesn't do anything for me.
Im ok with it.. It doesn't get me all hot and wet.. But I would totally watch. I think the best part is the shooting of the load.. and where it goes.. now that is sexy!!
Hmm. I think of watching as an education. He knows his preferences! As for arousal, basically the end of oral/wants to come on my face part is hot. I've always enjoyed the casual strokes that were meant to keep things rolling. I'm big on saying hold that thought, while I get a prop..or damn age, pop into the loo. (Squirting is best when you know for sure what liquid is involved) Seeing a man take matters into his own hands is refreshing.
If I'm around and my man wants to cum, I will suck his cock. I'd feel like a failure as a lover if he needed masturbating when I'm around. He masturbates, sure, and that's fine. But if I'm there, I like to be responsible for his pleasure.
When I had a guy ...... a few did, I just thought, "What a waste!" Not really a huge turn-on. It's sort of a "Me Tarzan" type activity.
Some very interesting replies. thank you all. I had a girl friend once that loved watching. she could cum just watching me not touching her self at all. her face only inches away from me made me feel very horny . my wife loves to watch at times. But there again I love to watch her as well.
Agree, I'd sure be pissed if he chose masturbation over me just because he was too lazy to get into it with me. I am a murderer when it comes to cooking eggs and BF likes his yokes not broken. I get it when he takes over cooking breakfast because I am kinda shitty at it but if he thought he was better on his penis then it would make me think he doesn't need me anymore. The thought isn't a turn on at all and I don't think I would get off playing with myself while he watched either. It's his touch that gets me off. I would get bored doing it myself, mind you if asked I would show him what works. That don't happen tho because it's was usually them showing me what drives my mind crazy with their own techniques as different as those would be for each guy.
I don't mind watching my boyfriend at all, in fact, I think it's kind of hot. Sure, most of the time I'd prefer to be the one causing pleasure, but the fact that he'd let me watch when he's doing such a private thing is kind of awesome. Besides, I can learn what he likes by watching him. It's still a pretty new relationship, so there's a lot of learning to be done, and sexy learning is my favorite.
