Question For Other Married Bi-Guys

Question for other married bi guys here. How do you acknowledge, express and satisfy your attraction to other males? I have been bi my entire life but over the last year I have really gotten back in touch with it. I have been watching a lot more gay porn and fantasizing about being with other guys. Are there any chat rooms or websites that you find good? I have never cheated on my wife but it would be nice to have some outlets for my desires.

 

I’d like to chat with you

 

Feel free to start a conversation with me

 

i came to this forum through a chat search. I spent several hours reading posts before i decided to join. I was amazed at how many guys were in similar situations to mine. Some guys have it worse but some have it better as well. It has been amazing to read the stories and everything to know that there are alot of us feeling like this as we get older.

 

Being older myself I’m more attracted to older men, I watch porn with grandpas together or I really just like to watch them masturbate, gives me a chance to really look at their cocks

 

For sure, I belong to a masturbation group, some older guys, some younger with really nice hard dicks. We watch each other or help each other out too

 

Wish I could find a local masturbation group

 

When I was married my very flirtatious wife found men and women for threesomes and such. I was never good at finding people.
Currently I have a buddy who comes around and brings a couple friends sometimes as well.
It's still a rush to answer the door completely naked knowing there are a couple of strangers there with your friend. Maybe that's just my fetish, I don't know.

 

Not just yours, I think many of us are very turned on by that thought!!

 

I mostly fantasize about it, but my bff is a woman and we talk about what we both like openly. She knows how much I luv sucking cock and getting my ass fucked, and we regularly talk about how much we wish we were allowed to do things to each other that our spouses are not into; she has lots of experience pegging an ex from years ago and really loved it, but her husband is not into it at all so she misses doing it.

 

My answer, I don’t. I’ve been married for over a decade. Grew up catholic, conservative, and military. It was always unacceptable in my life. My family would have disowned me. Military would have kicked me out. So I got married. Had kids. Now i have too much to lose. I’ve messed around a couple times. I enjoyed it, wouldn’t mind doing it some more, but I just can’t risk it. So now I’m happy on every aspect of my life, except sexually. My wife has zero sex drive. So I’m the typical man who has sex a couple times a year lol.

I just joined this forum to see if anyone else was in a similar predicament, and how they cope or do things.

 

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I need to find a guy like you.sain just needs the little bit extra.wonder how close or far we are?

 

I’m in a very similar situation with a similar past. I’ve had decades of urges and desires for male contact and finally acted on them in secret. It remains a secret as there is just too much to loose. In all honestly I can’t tell you my path is the right one, it’s just the path I have taken. This is one of those things that there are too many subtleties in each of us to either judge another’s path or choose their direction. The best I can come up with is to just be kind.

 

Same here. had urges all my life but have a lot to lose re: wife, kids, etc so mostly its just fantasy for me. There was a time where I traveled a lot for work and would meet up but even thats been few and far between. Ideally I would love to find a local guy in the same situation to play with but even that has risks....

 

Wow. Sounds just like me. Wish I'd have acted I. The past before I was involved seriously, but was always afraid.

 

I started bisexual activity when I was aged 30. My first wife was aware of my interest and while she did not actually encourage me she basically took a don't ask don't tell policy. We evolved into an open relationship around this same time and i was free to indulge myself to my hearts content, which I did. That lasted about 18 years when we decided to split. I then had a couple of years single before meeting my current wife. She has known about my background including my bisexuality since we met. However we have remained monogamous the whole time we have been together. It's been 23 years since my last male on male encounter. We have discussed it from time to time along with the idea of bringing others into out sex lives but we've both reached that age where for her, menopause has reduced her desire for any sort of sex and for me the reliability of my erections has decreased significantly. So neither of us is all that bothered. I recall my many enounters with a lot of pleasure and get a vicarious thrill from reading of others' experiences on here and similar forums. Would I become active again if the opportunity arose, possibly, But it would be openly and not in a cheating situation.

 

How did you locate the group or get it started. Sounds nice,..

 

I enjoy that also. '