Question for men: convince me to let my husband go down

I shocked my bride the first time we had sex and licked her clean afterwards. She never had anyone do that before and LOVED IT, turned into a thing for us.
So, go with the flow and enjoy.

 

At the beginning, even before our marriage, she would climax hard, and she was nicely blanketed , soft fur, I never got razor burn it was sensual and I loved her verbal omg and yeses. Teens. Then came child birth , a little less frequency but still she loved it , she got a little more confidence and equality in the relationship, she would hold the headboard and ride my face and the squirting began. That was a shock but , what the hey, fun is fun. Then after 35 years of marriage, she was into threesome , and cuckold and I was still relegated to face riding , what the hey still a lot of fun. Just appreciate the flavors and the love of all involved

 

I liked mine the best, when she called me said she’d be a little late getting home cuz she was getting her some strange . She and I liked it the best .

 

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Personally I prefer natural hair with a nice soft bush, but shower fresh or recently showered is good. After awhile of good foreplay I like the musky scent and taste of a woman too. If it's done right you'll want to have it done to you all the time.

 

Relax. If he did not like it he would not keep trying to go down on you. I find giving oral sex to a woman as a very special bond between me and her. I am tasting her inner most sexual arousal. And that is a great turn on. The aroma, the taste. It is such a turn on for most guys. Knowing that I have the honor and her trust to allow me to pleasure her in such a manner. Is very pleasurable for both of you. Personally how do I like a woman groomed ? I am a fan of pubic hair. If trimmed that is fine. But fully shaved it reminds me of a child and that is a total turn off for me. If you wish to do a quick wash or wipe with a face cloth before hand that is fine. But I do not feel that it would be a deal breaker if she didn't bother to just before hand

 

Any development? This is not exactly a recent thread.
How often your husband wants to do it, you can only know once things start and you enjoy receiving. I had a friend who was very open to giving me oral but never let me go down on her.
In my experience I felt cheated of giving even if I made her orgasm having sex. Wondering if your husband felt or feels the same way

 

He is your husband, no other man will ever go down there, unless you are into that. Enjoy your sexual experience, we love to go down on our women. I can’t speak for all men but to me , I don’t mind going down on my wife anytime of the day & I prefer her a little hairy.

 

So you posted about a year ago, any changes so far, have your thoughts changed? any chance of an answer?

 

I used to love going down on my ex and I preferred it if she needed a bit of a shower. Having said that, I really needed her to have her backside very clean. I can tolerate a lot and I enjoy giving a good rim job but I don't like off putting smells from the back door. I love the smell and taste of pussy and I don't remember ever not wanting my face right in there.

Tell your hubby how you're feeling and if he enjoys all of you, let yourself go.

 

In way of an update... Our sex life continues to be hot as we explore more and more creativity in the bedroom. I am getting more comfortable but I admit I am just not a huge fan of it. I love giving him blow jobs, tit fuck, and almost any position he wants any day... But I'd rather him stim my clit by hand. Recently I have enjoyed grabbing his dick and rubbing my clit exactly how I want it... Firmness, speed, etc. This is incredibly hot and I cum very quickly from this and he LOVES it.

Still trying to let him go down when he wants...but i think i prefer other things.

 

I’m on medication that makes me making love to my wife a difficult situation. The best way for me to get myself going is to eat my wife with or without her being freshly showered. The thing that gets me going is her response. If she isn’t bucking my face, pulling my hair, and leaving my beard covered in her juices, I’m not going to be able to preform. Her reaction is what gets me ready to rock.
When we first got together she was the same as you on this subject. After I got her to cum so much she couldn’t walk, without help, for over a half hour, she gave in almost every time I try. She is on medication that keeps her from getting in the mood as well. If she is not in the mood and neither am I but she’s having trouble sleeping I go down on her just to help her sleep. After I get her to make my beard dripping wet I leave the room and let her. We are on different work shifts so we can’t get together very often anyway. I have even woke her up for work by going down on her. She rarely reciprocates but that is fine, as long as she is happy.

 

Nothing wrong with wanting to be clean. My girlfriend is exactly the same. I understand that she needs to be able to completely relaxed to be able to cum from being stimulated by me orally. If you are worried about him not liking it still you could always use a load of flavoured lube. The taste and smell of the lube will be all he can sense. You can then relax and let his tongue do the work.

 

I love it when my partner uses flavored lube prior to being eaten. Last time she surprised me with a sweet fruity taste. Mixed with the real taste of her pussy it was quite a treat.

 

My wife is self conscious about that as well. She prefers to be showered and clean. I’ve never tasted hers when it has been a bad experience. I prefer having her not showered. It’s usually wetter and the pheromones drive me crazy.

 

3-4 weeks!? How do you stand it!? I can't go 3-4 days without having to have it. Yikes!

 

You may want to sit down, for this answer! I personally prefer my wife's hairy vulva rubbing my face, AFTER she does her workout! If I go get a popcicle, I want something attached to it...not an empty, tasteless popcicle stick! Just saying...

Some of us men, and maybe some ladies as well ...absolutely LOVE wet, drooling with grool, pussy. It might fall under animalistic instinct.

 

Just a thought...

Do you masturbate with or without him? If you masturbate with him, why not get yourself close while he watches and strokes himself and when you're ready, have him go down and try to finish you off. You can both think of the nice cock sucking you're be giving him shortly after!

 

(1) Maybe you should be a little more open with him about your concerns?
Ask him how he feels about going down on you and whether he likes it or feels that it's his duty. If he says that he likes it, that should allay some of your hesitance. Then, tell him your about your concerns about you personal hygiene and how you're worried that he thinks going down on you is "dirty". If you're willing to suck his cock without making him shower, he should be willing to go down on you without you showering. Unless that's just your personal preference. Most men will happily go down on a pussy that is presented to them even if it hasn't been freshly washed. Personally, all my woman has to do is drop her pants and I will happily go down on her, even if she just walked in from a long day at work!!!
You're adults, you should be able to discuss your personal and physical concerns about sex openly and intelligently. Knowing how to please each other sexually is tantamount to maintaining a good sex life. Trying to figure out what please your mate through trial and error is not always the best method. Sometimes it helps if they tell you what gets them excited and makes them cum!!!!
(2) I leave the grooming options up to her and accept how she prefers it. I will eat her pussy if it's hairless, trimmed or naturally hairy and still love it. Although the hair does tend to retain a very nice, arousing aroma!!!!