I'm 35 - I still get spontaneous erections. Yep, it's entirely possible that a man can have an erection if he wasn't attracted to a woman. It really does seem to have a mind of its own sometimes.
Erections are stimulated primarily by a release of hormones. This release of hormones can be entirely spontaneous, and for no apparent reason whatsoever, it can be from physical stimulation, or it can be from mental stimulation. Personally, I also find the time of year is a factor, as I mentioned in this this from a couple of years ago: http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=353511
I get an erection very often. Many times a day. At 19 I don't think that's abnormal. One of the advantages to having a shorter penis is that it isn't as noticeable through your clothing when its erect.
I also have a question.... Do guys usually loose their erections when they're penetrated with something (dildo,fingers etc) this happens to my man and I find it REALLY frustrating! He loves having me fuck him anally but his cock always goes limp when I do it... I'd love to suck him off while fucking him but seems like I can't have my cake and eat it too
Yes they do. Quite why this is so I don't know, but whenever I have Anal sex I lose my own erection when penetrated, as do my partners when I penetrate them.
I have to be turned on to get an erection... the question to ask is how easily are we turned on? Just reading your question and knowing that you are thinking about erections gave me one almost immidiately
Depends what you mean by attracted. There was this woman the other day who frankly was ugly as sin and I couldnt' have kissed her but the way she dressed turned me on and that just overcame everything else and I just wanted to fuck her. I'd say I wasn't attracted to her but she turned me on. Her work college on the other hand is the most lovely being I've ever encountred.
As I wrote earlier, when I was in my teens and twenties, I woke up every single morning with a huge hard-on. And I needed to pee, too. Because mine pointed up at a sharp angle, I had trouble aiming down at the toilet. At that point, I got in the habit of taking my morning tinkle in the sink. Anyone else encounter that?