I think it's the hottest thing ever to think about my wife (who's very hot) fucking one of my friends in front of me and me watching him cum on her Pussy. We are in love and have a great relationship..... i just would definitely like to try it at least once w her before i die. i just get turned on thinking about her being slutty bc I think that side is in every woman and it makes me feel close to her that she doesn't have to hide something like that with me. Would that be a turn on if your man shared that w u? How can I loosen her up to be less scared to talk about her fantasies w other men? Also- would u be turned on watching your man fucking another woman really well and driving her wild?
I think so too. Problem is, and I feel the same way sometimes, is like, we wanna try things we see. Hell we only have one life, and I believe, me at times too when I go through the lows, is like.. well, why shouldn't I try this? But, in saying that, other than the colorful liars on HF it just doesn't happen like snap of the fingers or anything lol. And what I find disgraceful is when there's total disregard for the partner. Like nobody cares what she thinks, I just wanna see her filled with cocks and cum. Ughh.
'zactly There's all kindsa weird stuff I still want to try, but it's never based on the assumption that my potential partner in these hypothetical situations is slutty just because. This guy thinks his wife is slutty because she's a woman and all women are slutty. That's an absurd statement. How do you get her to loosen up and talk about her fantasies? Not thinking of her as a slut just because might be a good place to start...
So I think neoprene is onto something with the porn thing Was it normal to want to see your woman with another man 40 years ago before porn became so prevalent? I dunno but it seems almost like a result of watching so much porn, like your mind becomes so conditioned to seeing a woman fuck some nasty guy in porn and you want to see it translated to real life. I don't really care what people do behind closed doors but this has always struck me as an odd fantasy, personally.
I've noticed certain traits and patterns within the swinging community as boys age. At 20 they want hot girls, 3som with 2 females. At 30 the thoughts of sex with couples men in the room doesn't sound as gay as it once used to. At 40 the thought of other men with their partner is an increasing turn on. By 50 they're ready to suck cocks on their own.
I would Not be turned on watching my man fuck another woman. What's the point of having a partner and devoting yourself too them if they are going to fuck other people? I agree with what the others said here with watching to much porn. Porn is great and does give some great ideas but I think you have to realize what's realistic and what's not. There probably are some women that would be into that but my guess is not too many. I guess it's similar to swinging. What if your wife let another man fuck her and she liked him more than you and it fucked your up your marrage? What if she moaned and came over and over with the other guy and then was silent with you and never came again with you? I bet you wouldn't be so happy then.
Lol. Oh there's definitely patterns with age. I remember as a teenager even, like a 3som with two guys that was gay as at school nobody wanted sloppy seconds. Now guys in their 40s and onward can't get enough of it. Now I have my opinion that the unicorn 3som of 2 females is harder to achieve, but another guy will stick it in anything so MMF is the easier route for a 3som.
