Question for Bisexual Men

Doesn’t bother me those women aren’t open minded enough to share a bed with me anyway it is rare to find one that’s into it but they are out there my woman asked and our sex life has gotten amazing ever since

 

Everyone has their own thoughts on that so it doesn’t bother me. For sure, bisexuality is as real as any other preference sexually. I’m still on the shy side of being with another guy….but think about it all the time. It excites me as much as being with my wife the next time. Love a woman’s body and spirit, but wouldn’t shy away from another guy if the opportunity presented itself ! So, I don’t believe in that notion. How open minded you are is your own choice. No doubt,though, BiSex is alive and well.✌️

 

It even goes beyond that, because BiLove is alive and well.

Most men are just focused on the sex aspect. That's fine, but some men have adventured into recognizing that love can transcend gender orientation.

The fact is, love can transcend anything. All the talk about conflict and culture wars becomes irrelevant when love is expressed.

 

Never considered the terminology. Bi sounds like a catch all for straights who have no intention of leaving their wives/girlfriends but occasionally act out an urge to be with another guy. Is it a sexual desire or a deep rooted issue? Who knows and, frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn. Just as I am not attracted to all women I am only attracted to one guy.

 

Other people's opinions do not bother me. Everyone has the right to their perspective, but I know that I am equally attracted to men just as much as I am attracted to women. My wife and I have a wonderful relationship - both physical and emotional. On the other side, I become excited looking at certain men and desire to take it further. I do not know if this is the definition of a true bisexual. When I am with a man, I never feel guilty afterwards. I am quite comfortable in that situation. When my wife and are are intimate, I am also totally immersed in the experience only thinking about bringing her to the pinnacle of pleasure. Bi seems to fit who I am

 

Well said, Don J………I feel exactly the same. I have a wonderful
relationship with my wife of 30 years. When we’re intimate it’s totally
fulfilling for us both. I’ve never ventured into a M2M adventure except
in my mind. Don’t think I would feel guilty afterwards, but there is a
Devil of my shoulder telling me that I should feel guilt for even thinking
such thoughts! Have to get rid of that guy!! Isn’t monogamy like modern
day handcuffs? Was that always the rule of sex? I look at guys and feel
the same stirrings as I do checking out a foxy lady. So, I guess that makes
me Bi but more importantly Human. Both sexes are equally beautiful and
should be appreciated by anyone who desires to do so. Unfortunately, not
all partners are on the same page with us. Respect to all, of course, for
their own beliefs. It’s all good✌️!

 

In my thinking, a gay man would only wat sex with another guy. A heterosexual man only wants sex with a woman. A bisexual gay will have sex with either. I enjoy sex with my wife tremendously. And I enjoy sex with another guy the same. Main difference though is with the guy it is only sex. We may be good friends and hang out a lot, but I can't envision myself kissing, cuddling or anything along those lines. I often see attractive women and think "I would do that." Have never thought that about a guy. But let me see a naked cock and I get hard in a heartbeat. If there was a naked man and woman on a bed, it would be a difficult decision as to which I would do first.

 

I personally know four gay men who also have sex with women (and have heard of a fifth one from a very reliable source) but will tell you in a heartbeat that they're still gay. Does knowing this change your thinking? I have personally turned many a heterosexual man into a bisexual one; does knowing this change your thinking? Here's a hint if you ever wind up in bed with both a man and a woman and you're trying to decide who do to first: Go after the one who's closest to you.

 

Ignore it I like what I like no argument will change that