We are married for more than 20 years. In the last couple of years we both have sex at least twice a week. During the week ends we like to engage ourselves in prolonged sex. Sometimes I keep my penis inside her vagina for more than an hour usually in the missionary position and some times my wife on top. I postpone my climax so that I can enjoy the sexual pleasure for a long time. My wife enjoys this and comments how I can keep my erection for so long especially whilst inside her. Do other couple have similar experience of prolonged sex?
With a little bit of teamwork and some practice you could probably get it down to a science. Personally, I have had problems with this when I was younger. Perhaps the necessary patience comes with age.
I know what you mean, it's just something you learn to control with time and practice. I can go a long time like that, but to tell you the truth, after a while and a few orgasms, she has had enough. However, I have noticed that the longer I delay, the less intense my orgasm is. I try to edge sometimes during sex to increase my pleasure in extended sessions, but it's hard to control the stimulation as easily as masturbation and stop in the middle of things to cool down to continue again...
I agree what you have said when you delay longer some times I fail to climax but I don't mind that once in a while. My wife will come only once during the session and she always signal me to get ready for my climax.