Question About Sex in Relationship

Who initiates sex more in your relationship-man or woman? Just curious. My bf initiates it alot more than I do, but lately I've been the one to ask or let him know I want sex. I hear the older a woman gets there are times when her sex drive is really strong. This seems to be the case with me lately. I stay horny.

 

I used to initiate it more, but now it's mostly her.

 

Pretty equal for us!

 

I am always the one to initiate it. very seldom does my wife.

 

Me.

 

At 55 I think I can say a very wide spectrum exists. Very extreme. Either a dud or sexual chemistry is determined in less than 3 dates. No moderation for the over 45 set.

 

I initiate more than he does. It's annoying that I could always be in the mood but he turns me down and says no not right now...

Honestly, he's lucky he gets pussy at all. I feel unappreciated sometimes.

 

She (my wife) doesn't seem to know how to initiate & I hate having to all the time.
It's very frustrating even asking her to as she takes ages thinking of what to do & then she just seems unwilling to & either I take control or say good night & make out I'm going to sleep. Sometimes I get up go to the bathroom & masturbate because I'm too horny & have to.

 

I have also had issues with being the one to initiate in the past, but for the past few months I am more open to it. We have great sex, but I guess I'm just shy about it somewhat.