Does the feeling of needing to go to the toilet pass? I've played with a few toys and stuff, there is the initial pain which I got past. But once it's in it feels like I need to go to the toilet and is quite unpleasant meaning I cant enjoy it, then i stop. I've just got a strap on to be pegged soon and I'm worried I won't enjoy it because of that. Any advice?
Myself, I went through the same situation. Couldn't get past that feeling. it took me a damn year of playing and dildos and whatever else I could use to finally figure it out. I wasn't relaxing everything enough. I was tense and always thinking about it. once I cleared my mind and relaxed enough I was good. 15 years later and I still have those feelings occasionally. Butt it doesn't take me long to get past it now. And it's harder to relax when you're the one playing. If you're lucky enough to get pegged, you can relax and enjoy it more because your mind isn't multitasking. have fun and good luck! AND LOTS OF LUBE!!
maybe you r worrying about scat? try douching first (3 times), then u know u r completely clean - might help u relax and loose that feeling. simon
Thanks for the reply, no that's not an issue. I do douche. I found a certain lube I was using had a slight tingle/burn feel that made it feel like the feeling after having diarrhoea which was the unpleasant feeling. A different lube was better but still kind of a similar feeling
If u are receiving with a strap on then no need of condoms so why not try coconut oil.... it's the best lube out but can attack condoms. Simon
Ive only done this once but i found out right away that the angle affected me in a big way.. One direction caused pain, another made me feel like i was going to shit myself, and then finally she hit me just right and my cock immediately got rock hard and i started experiencing the intense pleasure i have been reading about.
You are getting the feeling that you need to void yourself because you are "going against the flow". There's quite a difference from playing around with a few toys or stretching with butt plugs as opposed to being fucked for a period of time. You could especially begin to feel that urge if your partner goes deeper than before, or hits different spots. The body feels something in there and it is just doing its thing - getting rid of waste. Besides a thorough cleaning before hand, to minimize the feeling you can try a few things: 1. Use lots and lots of lube. If you think you have enough on the cock/dildo - double it. The more lube you have inside of you, the less dry patches the cock/dildo will to rub against, something that will trigger urges to void. 2. Start slow and shallow. The head just going in 2 or 3 inches. Most of the nerves are in the sphincters. It'll feel good on it's own. The prostate is only about 3.5 to 4 inches in. Inserting 7 inches puts it well past the prostate. You won't get that great feeling. Just have your partner go in about 4 inches and aimed toward the belly button. That's the sweet spot. You might feel that you need to pee but just get over it, you won't pee, you may cum though. 3. Change up. Don't try for a marathon session. Have them fuck you for a bit 2 or 3 minutes and then have your partner blow you, or you blow them or eat her out or fuck her for a few minutes. Then go back to it, and when they reinsert, Make sure they lube up again. Switching off for a bit will prolong it. 4. If the urge hits, well, it's going to happen. If you are getting the urge, then things have begun to move. Time to stop and move on to other things or you and your partner will have to get use to shit. Some people don't mind it. The more you do it the less and less it will happen. Either the body adjusts or you realize the triggers and avoid them.
It is important not to use lube with glycerin in it. Glycerin is also used as a laxative and will definitely give you that need to purge sensation. I have only used water based lubricants inside and out with very little problems. Just have to be careful how much I use inside. When I get the time to enjoy anal play I also will flush the colon with warm water to make sure there isn't anything there that might want out during my session. When you hit the sweet spot of the prostate your cock will stiffen letting you know you found "the spot". Good luck and have fun with it !!!
