You know we need to be attentive to people's feelings and needs. And what they are going thru too. But you really don't have to share their pain. Especially when it doesn't affect you. Or when you have moved on and they haven't. After Queen Victoria lost Albert, she was devastated. And she used to scold and reprimand her children for being too happy. Maybe she was still mourning. But her children had their own lives to lead at that point.
