Pussy Eating Advice

Hey guys I was just wondering if anyone can help. I've seen/read a ton of "pussy eating tips" & all of them kinda give the same vague information that's kinda obvious & I know I'm good enough to make my girlfriend feel good, & warming her up & foreplay but our problem is she can never fully get to the orgasm (just through pussy eating). The thing is we're both pretty inexperienced but we really like each other & we can both cum in other ways but I really wanna make her come by eating her out. & She's one of those people that are difficult to push over the edge as well & its also difficult for even herself to make herself cum. So she ends up being really close & then i get sort of exhausted cuz we're usually at it for a while & apparently the force & intensity required feels physically impossible with the mouth (well at least to me). So I feel really bad. So I was just wondering what exactly is the proper "finishing move" cuz I don't know & neither does she... So if anyone could tell me the proper EXACT detailed technic that would really help me out. Thanks c:

 

For how long does this cunnilingus usually go on? With my wife it takes about 10 minutes. Also what position are you in? Is your wife on her back and you lay between her legs or are you on your back and she is on top to sixty-nine? Try different positions.

I have a question on this same topic. If I am on my back and my wife is on top, I can not seem to find her clitoris. Why is that?

 

Um we have gone for more than 15 minutes, prolly longer... Also I was asking for detailed technic to get her to come. & Yeah we usually just do missionary but I guess I'll try different position thanks c:
& Because of the angle of the clit & the clitoral hood it's difficult to find the clit in the 69 position.

 

My girl likes it when I lick her lips from bottom to top, both sides on the outside and inside. I don’t go for the clit right away. When i do get to the clit I start doing circles around her clit with the tip of my tongue. She will often bring her hands down around her pussy and pull upwards on her skin especially just above her clit, this helps to expose more of her clit. Think of it like pulling your foreskin back to expose your head. As she gets closer to cumming, i start to use more of my tongue, the flatter part so i can put more pressure on the clit and alternate that with sucking her clit into my mouth and flicking it with the tip of my tongue while the suction keeps her clit in my mouth. All this brings her to orgasm and she loves it.

 

Practice! Practice! Practice! When you find what gives her the most pleasure, keep it up. Don't change methods. Dig down in that reserve of power you have and make her happy. Maybe find her G-spot with a finger.

Unfortunately, some women cannot cum by pussy eating alone.

 

Like Nike - just do it. Communicate, listen and practice. Take your time. Your turn is next, depending on how well you do. I have best luck laying on the side, licking clit side to side - that way, when she gets motivated in the moment, my cock is right there and we can 69.

 

The slower you give it the better it feels, in my opinion. If you insert your fingers in to her pussy while you are giving oral that feels awesome too.

 

Although there is plenty of general advice out there regarding oral sex, the fact is that every woman is different. Even woman has their own preferences. Try a few different techniques, and pay attention to how she responds. If there is a particular thing that drives her wild, then stick with it. If you try something that makes her respond less, then abandon it. Lastly, don't be offended if some women are just not into it. My wife, for example, prefers other means of stimulation.

 

What he said.

 

Ask her what she likes.

 

Start licking it, keep licking it, continue licking it. Up and down. Around the outside, stick your tongue inside. I like to go down and lick her ass and when doing this I can press my nose in her pussy. Make circles around her clit, gently suck on it. Enter her with a finger or two. Listen to her breathing or sighs. That’ll direct you to what she enjoys. Tease her a little. Get her close and ease off. Then bring her back again. In the missionary position you can put you hand on her stomach and feel when it tenses up. Enjoy all her wonderful warmth and juices.

 

OMG great advice!!

 

Then swing around and finish up in a 69.............

 

Agree. You really can’t go too slow. Make sure she knows there’s no timetable. And, most importantly, make sure she knows she will not be expected to reciprocate.

 

The more you lick the more I moan, so I guess it follows your cock is gonna be pretty damn hard.

 

Take your time, and enjoy it.

 

Not every woman likes it, but I kind of `chew' lightly on my wife's clit, besides just licking and sucking it. Also, try fingering her (one or two fingers) while working the clit.

 

Love getting the mustache sticky,, I like to clean her with my tongue, drives her wild

 

From a female's perspective, let her know that you love eating her pussy. I am the giver in bed. It's difficult for me to lay there and accept pleasure.

We are in the swinger lifestyle. So, I have some experience with men other than my husband. When I cum? It's when the man I am with makes it obvious that he is in the exact place he wants to be....and not just doing it as a "have to". So, guys...get into it : ) and let her know you are enjoying that moment in time with giving her pleasure.

And I agree with everything in the quote above : )

 

I think the issue is actually not with your technique but in her mind. Because really, eating pussy isn't that difficult. However, sometimes women can have a ton of issues around orgasm, and it's more in the mind rather than something physical.

She needs to feel secure and confident because any thoughts about body insecurities or feeling guilty about taking too long to cum will only make it harder.

I'm a woman and I write this because I've had similar problems. The biggest thing that helped was finding out about mindful sex. There are lots of books and YouTube videos if you search "mindful sex" but the basics of it are trying to clear your mind of any unnecessary thoughts and focusing solely on the sensations and how good her body feels. Plus, keeping the entire pelvic floor relaxed rather than tense will help.

I realize you said she was coming in other ways besides oral but sometimes because of the intimacy of oral, it can distract us with thoughts about if it tastes okay or smells okay or anything self conscious will really make it hard to cum.

I hope that helps. I realize my answer isn't really anything you can do, but maybe if she's willing you can share my answer with her. If not, anything to make her feel more secure, like telling her how amazing she tastes and how beautiful her pussy is may help.

Womens orgasms are so much different than men in that the mind is so much more involved. Hope that helps!