pulling out....?

don't you think taking cum in your mouth is a little objectifying of women? my girlfriend does at least... so i've never come anywhere but inside, which i have no problem with, but still.

 

Have you ever read the instructions for a condom? You're not supposed to come inside a woman even with a condom on!!

 

another unwanted child. well the STATE well take away from you.

 

No, I don't. I often ask my boyfriend to let me know when he's close to coming so that I can take it in my mouth.

BTW, being objectified isn't always bad.

 

AHHHhhhhhHHHHhhhhHHHHHH sigh...

 

ahahah....

me thinks you're girlfriend is either a femminist or a prude

i love every single part of my boyfriend...including his cum...he loves it when i swallow his cum, so i love doing it for him.

it would be objectifying if i had met a guy somewhere, he had taken me home and we had sex and he came in my mouth after sex and it being the first time i have ever met him...

but i have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now...we are comfortable enough to do ANYTHING with each other.

and the majority of the times, he cums on my stomach/back, but there are those couple times he cums in my mouth.

me and my boyfriend see pulling out as an extra precaution we take (so we dont get pregnant) however, its not the ONLY precaution we take....

 

Probably both. The worst kind of human on earth.

 

no. she just doesn't approve of porn. and perhaps it is the fact that there is so much objectification of women within the porn industry that leads her to not want "those things" done to her.

be careful making assumptions about people you don't know.

 

you assumed she was being objectified by her bf (as if thats a bad thing and it means he has no respect for her) she assume your gf was a prude or a feminist (im leaning towards a lil prudish). no need for the pot to call the kettle black, were all on the same stove......

yes that was lame...i did that on purpose.

 

yes, thank you dangermoose.

i only made assumptions about ur gf because you made assumptions about me. and honestly, if thats how your gf really is, she must be a bit prudish... she wont even let you cum in her mouth? it has nothing to do with objectifying a woman if you are in a loving, respectful relationship....

 

lawn darts at 50 paces ....cum guzzelers vs prudes .....

 

Sure we do. It happens all day long.

A friend of mine from high school got pregnant because she and her boyfriend relied on the pulling out method.

If you don't want to get pregnant, use a real form of contraception.

 

no, i've never asked to cum in her mouth because i don't want to. let's go ahead and end this since you don't know what's involved.

peace.

 

i dont think its that safe because guys have precum that comes out b4 they actually cum and they dont know when the precum comes out so i dont really think its that safe at all.

 

I dont have anything to add to this thread but seeing Sugarmagnolia say precum a few times was kinda hot!!

 

For you perhaps. I can guarantee the majority of women do NOT want to be objects

 

i'm sure it's different for everyone, different bodies, different virility and all...... but my wife and i went five years with no birth control other than pulling out.....

and no, when i say "we went five years" it doesn't mean she then got pregnant.... we spilt up....

but i certainly don't recommend the pull out method for anyone not ready to have children.... you know, just in case

 

I believe what sugarmagnolia569 was trying to say, is that precum does contain sperm. And it is very possible for the women to get pregnant. For some women, their fertility is different than another woman's. It can be easier for certain women to get pregnant given the shape of their vaginas and fundamental genetics.

The biggest problem I have with pulling out is that you are truly never safe from STDs. I have two best girlfriends who were both in 4 year long relationships, and both of their boyfriends slept with other women, and they both contracted an STD.

One of my friend's contracted chlamydia, to which if left untreated - can cause dysfunctional reproduction capabilities in both men and women. The problem with most STDs, is that they have potential to be dormant (ie. the HIV virus can be dormant for up to 15 years!!!) and there is really no way to determine how many people your partner has had unprotected sex with, how many people that partner has had unprotected sex with, how many people those partners had unprotected sex with, ad nauseum.

As a form of birth control? There are far better options out there. But for christ's sake, use a condom if you're dating someone and are not planning on a pregnancy.

 

Everymale has a "leaky dick" persay.. They always have a tiny bit of precum, even if they dont think they do.. They do.. So you could still get preggo..
I am on birth control, and I still make my boyfriend pull out and cum on my face, ass or tits.

 

well it worked fine for my cousin for about a year... then she got knocked up wound up having to have a c-section. This is a 28 year old woman with a solid income and a reliable partner (just not that bright)... imagine going through that trauma when you don't have those things