Psychedelics and girlfriends

i've been dating my gf for 4 years. we first met in undergrad when i was selling weed and could find acid somewhat easily. she would ride around with me making weed deals, and in two months probably we were doing acid together. for the next year and a half maybe, all that was fine. but she eventually "grew up" and got sick of my drug dealing. tripping wasn't so much of an issue, b/c i couldn't get any psychedelics for awhile. or if i did it was very rare.
now it's 4 years later. we live together now. i will very likely marry her. i don't sell weed anymore. but i smoke. she tolerates it. i have psychedlics in the fridge. she HATES it. because of health reasons. and she won't believe that it's not very bad for you. she won't realize that alcohol is a drug too, and more harmful to the body and to society than all pychedelics are. she still "lets me" trip every few months. but she'd probably never trip with me again. sometimes she hits the bong.

and YES, tripping with your lover is amazing.

 

I've been blessed to find a man who not only tolerates me tripping once in a while, but who likes to join me too. We knew each other since january, but got closer only since this july. In august we went to an outdoors rave party that took place in a beautiful spot in nature, with a river nearby and the sky was clear. He took acid while I candyflipped (MDMA + LSD). I was dancing and having fun and all, sometimes hanging with my man, sometimes just fooling around with my friends, when I felt the need to slow down and relax. There was a lot of shooting stars that night, as usual for the first 2 weeks of august. I laid on my back in the grass and looked at the night sky for a while, completely fascinated and amazed by the beauty of nature. At a moment my man found me and laid besides me. Just holding each other's hand in silence, with no need to speak to know what the other is feeling, or thinking, and looking at this night sky was a moment of pure bliss.

 

beautiful

 

on the comedown i always feel really affectionate, like i just want to curl up with someone on a warm evening after returning home from a long ways away.

tripping is for love anyway, imo.

 

My long-time gf of ~7 years does not approve of me using psychs. She mainly is concerned about the legality of these substances and my safety. I was arrested a couple of times for simple possession of marijuana and once for shrooms while I was in college. If they were legal and I was responsible with them she wouldn't have a problem. Most of the time I think that I would love it if she were into tripping with me, but she has helped make me a better person in other ways (quitting smoking cigs, limiting other drugs besides psychs, and motivating me to go back to grad school). We click in virtually every other way so I think I can let this one slide. Hopefully either the US will wisen up and legalize/decriminalize most psychs or we will move to a more tolerant area.

 

My ex wasn't into it at all. She wouldn't touch any drug except for the occasional joint. I was doing a lot of LSD at the time, mostly every week, and it caused a lot of tension. Ended up taking a break from it for a few months and the relationship got better. After i started taking acid again that spring though it all went downhill again and we called it quits not long after.

There where other reasons of course but yeah i don't think i would bother going out with a woman who isn't at least open minded about psychedelics. Other drugs I'm not really fussed with since i don't do them anymore but it is nice to talk to people who have similar experiences and can understand where you are coming from.

I really look forward to the day that a can trip with someone that i love. The search goes on.

 

well i'd be like bitch i'm into trippin balls. you down sweet thang? and end with a pelvic thrust.

DISCLAIMER: not all women respond well to that

 

I'm one of the rare, happy people who got a girlfriend who trips, smokes or takes any drug with them.....

She loves it as much as I love it...

 

:cheers2:

 

I need to find one of these girlss

 

Yeah I don't know where to look for that type of girl. I meet too many straight edge girls. Please help! I'm a 29 yr old asian guy.

 

We're around... I can't speak for others, but myself, I'm just quiet. Look for the quiet ones. The stereotype "quiet = weird" does have some merit.

 

all my friends are this way, not necessarily into the spiritual aspect of it like i am...but its just as hard to find down to earth guys who trip, just saying

 

Quiet eh? Ok I'll see what I can dig up. I can imagine tripping with someone I'm dating would be extraodinary.

 

Great thread btw, and on suject matter i have been thinking of posting myself lately .. then bang i come home today log on and this thread is allready going .. dont know how i missed it ..

And yeh can only agree with others realy, you got to be pretty well matched to trip happily for the duration of your relationship.

Up to now ive found it hard to trip (with) g/f's, but dont find it a problem being in the company of other women whilst were all tripping together.
I obviously havent found the right woman yet either .. My recently split ex wanted to trip with me but i held back and didnt introduce her to the realm, somthing just didnt feel right with the idea of us tripping together.

But hey im young enough to find me a chilled out chick one day ...

Like said great thread, and somthing that has pondered on my mind for a few years now ..

 

unless they get all wigged out on some emotional crap.

 

On your not finding the right woman... just remember if you get hooked up with a chick, years later she's trying to turn you into the perfect man that she always wanted and you're trying to turn her back into the little sexy nympho she once was.

 

^^^i think you might have meant to say that to me

 

Speaking for LSD in this subject is more complex many factors involved, but I can speak for marijuana.

I feel I could never stay very close to a person that did not understand in the least marijuana.

And some people might say 'Youd take marijuana over a girlfriend'? And most people would think choosing a plant over a girl is absolutely fucked up.

But its not just the plant that your leaving behind. Its not just some plant, some thing. Like a car, or a job, or pornography. Its not some 'thing'. Its a different world. Its a different concioussness. If you've become symbiotic with a plant, it is part of you. And a girl not accepting the plant is not accepting you.

Which some people still might really think thats fucked up because Im choosing a 'drug'. But I don't see it like a drug, I see it as diet. I see it more like when a Vegan doesnt date people who eat meat. Or something like that. Just because a plant gives a person highly psychoactive effects the first times consuming it, does not mean other people can't integrate it into their diet. I see it as discrimination against diet, straight up discrimination and bigotry. And its really for that reason I couldn't get along with someone very closely, for very long who did not know marijuana well. I'd be living with a bigotted person who basically thought they were so special and correct that there bigotry is justified, and thats really pretty fucked up on there part.

Another thing though. It's not like I meet people, get along with them well, feel close to them, then find out there anti-weed and decide to not mingle with them. I rather find that people who are strictly anti-weed I just don't feel close to. Theres a disconnect. Honestly the only friends I have these days that I feel close to that aren't well aquainted with weed are my guy friends I've had since high school. I haven't really gained any new close friends since high school that don't have some understanding of what weed is.

 

amen man