The Aneros ones are good but expensive....u can find cheaper generic copies just as good. it's the one right in the middle of the picture, they come with two 'wings' but I cut one off, find it more effective to manoeuvre....hehe Simon
I agree that the Aneros toys are good. The njoy Pure Wand is amazing as is the njoy Pure Plug (large is 2.0, don't bother with the smaller ones).
A good (silicone, flared base) medium-sized buttplug (less bulbous than the one in the photo bottom (!) left.
Good on you! Honest, you have to start small because you are introducing changes to your body's coping ability--stretching, widening. Remember, we're muscle and skin, not robotic parts that can be inserted at will. Patience makes the eventual orgasm Better, More Betterer, and OHMYFUCKINGGOD Best!
Although Miami Vice is a bit cheaper to enjoy, but(t) I have seen the product well recommended. An ass needs goals, just like every body!
My ass seems to prefer the "handle" base over the "ring" base as less irritating to the surrounding, uh, er, stuff.
I have the vice, non vibrating model. Feels pretty damn good! Also have a Blush Elite 7" dildo. Glow in the dark orange. Damn thing feels so good!
Your, uh, bum appears more, erm, capacious than mine or has been, shall I say, conditioned to become so. I'm impressed (if not depressed). Some things to be looked forwards (if not, um, rearwards) to! Ass-tounding, mate!
Njoy wand. You can spend a ton of cash on a battery powered toy and it may not hit your p-spot just as you’d like (they’re one size fits all). With a wand you can hit it just right and vary the pressure as you like - save yourself a hundred bucks also.
'Course, it did occur to me that an older body might realistically involve an older prostate--not like the organ remains magically separate from the aging process. So I might need to reduce my expectations...
I'm in my upper 50's - when I massage my prostate I immediately start dripping precum and often shoot a rope or three. With practice and patience, you'll have a prostate O and that's a helluva ride.