Never actually had a bj to completion from my partners. My current partner doesn't seem interested in doing that at all, because she has a bad gag reflex and says she doesn't get anything out of it. I just want to cum in the back of her throat. How do I convince her?
Forget trying to convince her, she'll always think she's doing you a favor if it even happens. Dump her and find yourself a woman who gets a warm fuzzy feeling from making her man feel good.
I agree, trying to convince = pressuring, and that never leads to anything good. If you're in this for the long haul, you may have to settle for whatever she is willing to offer in the name of love. However, on the other hand, if you see this going nowhere....well, there are plenty of girls who love nothing more than to please a guy orally.
I love to suck cock almost as much as fucking! If you haven't had many partners then she may not be the one for you, but if you have tried a few and not gotten to completion then check your hygiene. I suck my husband off at the end of the day (he showers in the morning) but he doesn't sweat much throughout the day. If you sweat a lot, make sure you have showered recently. Also consider trimming your hair or shaving it! My hubby doesn't, but I have told him that I would spend a lot more the lick get and sucking his balls if he shave them. I really crave it, but the hair in my mouth is hard to get over.
Try coconut oil. Great lube and tastes good. Maybe remind her of a Mounds bar or Almond Joy. You know, sometimes she sucks on your nut...
