Prolonging penis/vaginal penetrative sex and delaying orgasm

I hope couples are inventing new pleasures. We recently started to experiment with prolonged penetrative sex and delaying orgasm for another day. We can go up to an hour inside without climaxing, and end the session without climaxing that night. Again, we repeat this for next two nights, and then on the 3rd or 4th night we go all the way for a full blown mutual orgasm. This really builds up sexual tension for days and the final orgasm is mind blowing deeply satisfying.

This needs a lot of mind control from both parties and really gives great satisfaction to both. If any one with this kind of experience please give some feedback.

 

I think what you are doing is referred to as soaking. The man inserts his penis into her vagina but does not move it in or out. Neither does she contract and release her vaginal muscles. They lay there quietly, copulated, and enjoy each other. If he becomes flaccid due to the lack of stimulation the couple continues to lay together, penis remaining in her vagina. Eventually he may harden again but if not he tries to remain inside. If he falls out he can try to reinsert flaccid or regain the erection before reinsertion. But movement in her is not performed. The couple may do this for hours and, as Klimax pointed out, stop and uncouple only to re-couple again within the next day.

 

We do move in and out. Thus keeping penis erect all the time. We stop movement only to stop climaxing. We do that for 45 mins to an hour.

 

I am glad you are aware of this practice.I agree with you about soaking. Our practice is slightly different because instead of lying still after the full penetration of the penis into the vagina, we don't lie still. We choose missionary position which is comfortable for most of the physical caresses and stimulations. We constantly move in and out and keep the erection going. Only when either of us feel like climaxing we stop the movements and relax for a while. We play with different strokes and she will also try to do squeezing with the pelvic floor muscles while the penis is moving in and out. The aim is to keep both highly excited through out the session and keep the sexual feeling heightened for a long time. We usually go for about 60 minutes.

 

When we were sexually active we did soaking through the practice of Tantric. We would do the Tantric breathing and caressing eventually my entering her but not moving. I would hold still for a long time as we kissed and caressed each other. We cuddled and fell asleep sometimes or I would stay in moving towards orgasm. If we fell asleep the next morning I might enter her again and lay there while we talked, kissed, and caressed again. Eventually we would start the movements towards orgasm. The orgasm from there was very intense. Both of us might orgasm together. If not we would find a way for both of us to be satisfied. It took a lot of time to partake in this. Usually we headed to a hotel for the weekend where room service was available.

 

It is nice to share the experiences with you who has gone through same pleasures. Do you agree this kind of practice needs so much of self-control and enough sexual experience? For example some one who is new to sex (very young) may not have this kind of experience to control climaxing.

 

There is no doubt one inexperienced with sex cannot really appreciate all of the variables that there are. Plus many have no imagination or willingness to try new things.sexually. For example I sometimes will direct my partner what I want done to me. She will do everything I ask of her to get me to orgasm but I hold off. I keep telling her what she was doing was great and to continue with this or that. Finally I can't take it any more and explode into a full body shaking orgasm that lasts several minutes. I maintain control as long as I can. As the tension builds and recedes the release, when it comes, is . . . . .

 

Yes it is important for the partner to cooperate 100%. Without her understanding it is near impossible to achieve the height of orgasmic bliss. I hope every one engaging in sex learn this as early as possible in their sex life so that sex will be very rewarding and help to cement good relationship among couples.

 

This is something I had thought about in the past, but I never had the chance to seriously try it before.
Maybe because I hadn't found the right partner yet.
It is strange but, since I first met my current girlfriend, the desire to experiment with this practice has become more urgent.
When we first met and I looked at her, it's the first thing that came to my mind and since then, I've never stopped thinking about it.
Having a fixed partner, with whom there is a stable relationship, has advantages and disadvantages and, at the moment I think we're discovering them.
I am convinced that an empathic relationship with the partner helps to become a good lover for her. And this is mutual.
We, as individuals, are all different and what is good for someone may not be good for someone else.
The couples are all different and perhaps it also takes a little luck to find a partner who is also an accomplice in the pursuit of pleasure.
Sometimes you can also find empathy with an unknown person, in an occasional relationship, but perhaps there is a lack of greater intimacy, mutual trust and greater knowledge of each other.
It also happens that, when starting a relationship, partly because of modesty, partly because you are afraid of offending your partner or being rejected, you do not reveal all your fantasies or what you think and you want.
It depends on many things, on each one's character, on expectations, on how emotionally and physically involved you are.
A strong mutual physical attraction removes many obstacles from this point of view.
But if there is also empathy and trust, it becomes easier to confess some of your own fantasy to your partner, without the fear that she will take offense or reject you.
Last week I was browsing the forum and I followed a link because I was curious to know what it was about. My girlfriend caught me while I was looking at the site and she wanted to see what it was.
She is an intelligent and sensitive woman and was certainly not scandalized but rather, she asked me if I was missing something in our relationship, especially in the sexual sphere.
I had nothing to hide from her, even if at the beginning I wasn't sure how to deal with the topic.
So I decided to browse those web pages with her. We had fun jokingly while reading the article and looking at the pictures.
There was a nice atmosphere at the time. There is good chemistry between us and in that moment of intimacy and complicity, it came to me spontaneously to confess to her my fantasies about her, since I know her.
I told her that, since I met her the first day, I was obsessed with the thought of what it would have been like sex with her. Especially intercourse, to be inside her. And it's the same reason why, after making love, I never go out of her right away, but I stay in until I can keep my erection.
She asked me if there was a particular reason and I, without many turns of words, ended up confessing my fantasy at first sight about her.
When I met her the first time, we were sitting one next the other. The first thing I noticed was her smile and her beautiful face with big eyes and a lovely small mouth and, when we started talking, I was struck by her frank and direct way of speaking, by her vitality, and above all by the energy that she communicated to me with her words and with her way of looking at me while she did it.
But then, when we got up after dinner to leave the table, I saw how tiny she was due to her disability, and how, despite the particular proportions of her body, she was cute and with nice shapes.
Something clicked, I found all those things together irresistible, and when I thought that all that vitality and that energy were concentrated in a woman with a body so small that I found it irresistibly sexy I seemed to go crazy with desire, I was no longer rational. Subsequently, the first caresses, kisses and hugs, only confirmed that sex with her would still be special.
All this long premise is to say that for us as a couple, being able to prolong this deep contact has a particular meaning. The kind of fulfillment I'm looking for has both emotional and physical implications. Emotional for the relationship that binds us at the level of understanding and chemistry, of the way we complete each other. Physical because we are both warm people who seek physical fulfillment and who find well-being in doing it. In addition to the fact that, being so physically different, sexual intercourse is also affected, if only for our mutual proportions and the triks that we must adopt when we have sex. This is not a problem at all, but rather increases a lot lust, but also the risk of reaching orgasm too early.

Yes, it is true, it takes a lot of control, and this is not easy at all, especially if there is a lot of desire and the situation risks becoming too exciting.
She is tight and also there is the visual stimulus seeing our bodies in contact, which has a very powerful erotic effect, in addition to the sound of moans.
For this, at least for now, we try this type of experience of prolonged penetration after having already had a intercourse and climaxed. So as to release tension before starting.

On this aspect we are improving our harmony with exercise and we are helped by the fact that we have the same interest in succeeding.

We find more comfortable the position in which I am sitting and she is sitting astride on my lap.
In this position we manage to have a close contact hugging and French kissing each other if we want.
Missionary her eyes remain at the level of my chest while I have the pillow in front of my face because of our huge difference in stature.
Standing on top, she has more freedom of movement and can also adjust the angle of the pelvis and the depth of penetration.
Being small, however, she is also quite light and we can maintain this position for a long time.
We often keep our eyes closed and adjust the movements according to the excitement. We slow down when one of us is too excited or we accelerate or we increase the depth when we are losing excitement. When we are still, we enjoy the only pleasure of penetration itself, the physical contact of the bodies during the embrace, or of the hands that intertwine the fingers. We hear the sound of our breathing.

 

Your explanation has many of the aspects of Tantric Sex. Taking it slow, closing your eyes, feeling each others breathing. These are all involved in Tantra.

 

I have heard of this practice. I remember that a few years ago the news had circulated that Sting and his wife followed this discipline.

often, actually, when we make love that way, I close my eyes to turn off a sense at least.
Otherwise the excitement remains too high to prolong the duration of the experience. Seeing my partner's body as I penetrate her makes me lose control.
However, if you can put it off long enough, the experience is very beautiful and rewarding.
It is an emotional fusion that finds its completion in a physical union.
I feel the body of my partner very much during the intercourse in this way.
That energy that I perceive in her during the day I also perceive it physically when I am deeply inside her.
It pays me a lot to be able to hold her in my arms while I'm inside her.
Being so physically different means that she is completely enclosed in my embrace.
This greatly amplifies physical sensations, even during penetration.
Her energy is all concentrated in a small body.
I find that this thing is very erotic for us.