in my experience, no they don't. "have you ever had a partner ask what your past sexual partner count was, but you couldn't add that high?"
Seeing this thread title in "Women's Issues", I was expecting the OP to be "What's up with bitches not being able to count?"
The numbers might not bother me, but seeing a nice looking girl, who would be with a guy, who's personal hygiene, wasn't up to par was a bad thought.
I have found that Guys like to teach (and can only be done though practice) Girls like to be educated (through a partner who has experience) So, whether it's one or none, does it really matter? If the considered enactment of sexual interaction is mutually enjoyable - even if not euphoric that it is that which is important - IMO
Practicality prescribes a condom, but that may be for another thread... The most important thing imo is how you feel with that person. They may have had exponentially more partners but also dramatically changed their life in some way such that their number of partners is no longer a factor.
I've never had a guy ask me that. But I'm not surprised. I think this question usually doesn't come up until the relationship becomes more serious, if even then. It would be a strange question for a first or second date, and would scare me away.
Yes My wife wanted to know every detail. Numbers and how the relationship lasted and ended and what the cause for it to end. It wasn't an interrogation as such as she collected this information over time. This enabled her to be a better partner for me and we have been together now for 30 years .She has met a couple of my Exes and became good friends with one of them .
I've never asked this question, I've asked about specific experiences as our relationship has grown. Even if it came up in conversation no matter the amount it wouldn't deter me in any way. It's irrelevant.........
My second wife had a compulsion to tell me about her sexual history. I did not really want to hear it but it explained a lot about her relationships with men. It should have rang a bell (along with other things) but I married her anyway. Two years later I was wiser and poorer. A lot poorer.
I could imagine the girl going straight to her phone and counting all the guys names in her phone-book Life in 2020. .
I have a problem with numbers ! There are so many of them and they mean fuck all only numbers that really count are zero and More than zero