Im having an issue with my wife and she isnt the type of woman that will talk about sex so i cant just talkm to her. The problem is she is stopping me right in the middle of oral sex. I belive she is stopping me right before she orgasms. I have asked her why she just says she doesnt know why. Well obviously she knows why but just cant talk about whatever it is. I have some thoughts on it but would like some other opinions on what she might be afraid of. Also i absolutely love to perform oral on her and would do it all night if i could but after only like 5 min she is stopping me. How can i do it longer without bringing her to the point of stopping me. Its not like im going right for the clit or anything either. Please help
My wife wants to orgasm through penetration. She says she enjoys it more. However, 20 something years she mentioned my sexual rival. She stopped fucking him and started fucking me but he kept trying to get back in. I suspect we were both fucking her for awhile. He was this big black dude who was really just using her as a masturbation aid. He would go till he came then stop. He told her once that he wouldn't lick her pussy because it Had odor. It doesn't and is very nice tasting pussy. But i think he made her self conscience and now she has trouble enjoying it.
op-it would be easier to get her talking about sex...if she isn't comfortable it is on you to make her comfortable....sounds like it is you that doesn't know how to discuss sex....otherwise she might open up more you open with the actual problem and then hope to solve it with a smaller issue...it does not work like that
No, i dont have a problem talking about it. I have tried talking about this and other things regarding sex. My wife is the kind of girl who just doesnt talk about stuff like that. She doesnt swear etc either. So far no amount of trying to talk about it is working. And im not hoping to solve it with a smaller problem, maybe just trying to get her to enjoy it a little longer before it gets to that point. OBTW, She doesnt have a problem with me doing it, im pretty sure she likes it so i dont think she is worried about a smell. At least not anymore than any other woman is.
Is it possible she pees while she cums and doesn't want to get piss in your mouth? I could see someone being embarrassed to talk about that.