This topic was recently suggested, and I thought I'd throw it out here for any input that can be offered. What methods or tools do you use to get clean for anal play and penetration?
OK - I'll start here - first of all - admitting somewhat publicly that I am a bottom is kind of a big deal. Us bottoms take the submissive roll and for some reason that comes off as a negative. Some people think that way, anyway - a form of misogyny between men. But let me just say - I've gone both ways, and I happen to enjoy being a bottom. It feels good. That's how I like it. No apologies. No shame. Preparation for me is pretty simple. I drink a glass of Fiber daily. There are a lot of benefits to his habit, the least of which keeps my bathroom visits regular and clean. When I have a pending date or even if there is a chance for one, part of my getting ready to go out is some time in the bathroom with a tool that is similar to what I suspect some women use to douche. There is a bulb I fill with tepid water - not EVER hot and I prefer not cold. I insert the probe and squeeze the water into my ass - and then I expel it into the toilet - I do this several times until the water coming out is clean. Things can happen - your digestive system keeps working, so if you clean out and then go out - hours later, you may have some pooh coming down the shute... as the saying goes "shit happens"/ It is never fun and can be embarrassing, but mostly it can be expected that some sort of something might get on the man's penis... if it really is a concern, then tell him he should wear a condom. Also, grow up a little - I mean, come on - he's fucking you up the ass - what does he expect? Sex is messy. That's my routine. I've heard some men take Imodium to clean out. I'd rather have my glass of daily fiber - it is healthier.
I too douche if I know I'm meeting for anal sex. I use the bottle from a Fleet enema to shoot warm water into my ass and then expel it. I repeat several times until the water looks pretty clear. Sometimes I'll use an enema bag and hose kit, again with warm water, if I feel I need to deep clean. Neither is 100 percent for avoiding a little bit of mess. But, most of the time it's a clean go. I try not to do it too often so as not to disrupt the balance in my rectum and colon.
Yes, as ame as mentioned with a simple douche bulb if I'm away from home or travelling. At home I have a plumbed-in spray.... it's actually a vaginal one from Amazon and works great .. guaranteed clean. I have another the same that I carry with me and can be used for 'final finishing' in a hotel shower that has a hose connection. I used to worry about cleaning too much, and even add a little salt, but have found I have no problems with douching quite regularly when I'm meeting. Simon
I’ve used a bulb and had it work fine and I’ve also had it work…well less than desirable. I’ve also used a plumbed in one at a friends house and it had worked great.
Like @thepapasmurph I'm a bottom too and that's my preference. So with that said the few things I'll add is don't over do it with the water. Too much and water can get up into the transverse colon and possibly into the ascending colon and cause a messy issue when you least expect it. Also I've learned to squat or stand when pushing liquid in using gravity to keep the liquid in the decending colon. Three cleansings usually does the trick and the water is clear. I usually eat very light the day before and the day of that's if it's a pending date. I'm a fiber consumer. I eat oatmeal for breakfast almost everyday, helps keep my cholesterol at bay and I take a probiotic every night with yogurt. That keeps me regular. Just my two cents worth. Hope I didn't get too technical.
Knowing your bodily functions is the key. Like the others, a bulb syringe works fine to empty and clean up. I couple of squrts and we are Good to Go. It helps if you know when you are going to be engageing in Anal Fun, so you don't eat the wrong things prior, like White Castles or Spicy Mexican.
TOYS! Get a good sized, triple-ripple butt plug and a decent (largish?) detailed rubber/silicone dildo. Use something like K-Y for lube. Take time to dilate...and go inch by inch, each successive time. Work up to it...it'll be the most rewarding investment of time. I had a very short legged (3"), padded dressing stool I'd sit on, to work my toys in and have total control of penetration for size/time ratio. I wish I still had all of that today!
I continue to clean out as I posted earlier. But, lately I've been using a dildo or plug afterwards to loosen and open up my ass a little, and then cleaning my anus for rimming. I had been having a tough time getting penetrated but now find it nearly quick and painless for him to push his cock into me.