Premature ejaculation

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by Cutted, Aug 20, 2007.

  1. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    Call a hotline. They're trained to understand.
     
  2. Sevenbyfive

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    What if you are hyper sensitive
     
  3. Deejay88

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    It happens
     
  4. Cutted

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    Most guys with hypersensitive penises are uncut. Is that your situation?
    You can use desensitizing cream, or use a condom. Also having sex right after a previous cum helps keep you from a premature ejaculation.
     
  5. Angela36

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    Wow. This is some great stuff. I can't wait to try it on a friend who is always early to the party.
     
  6. Barry Thrift

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    Hi if you last for 15 hours? I think that will satisfy her, but birth control like the pill is ready after 7 days not 6 months, but as you say she is a nympho you will never satisfy her.
     
  7. Klimax2gether

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    I have tried many of your steps you mentioned in your post over the years and it all worked. I did not have any problems with premature ejaculation. But I was aiming for prolonged intercourse until my wife climaxed which usually takes about 30 - 45 minuted of penetrative sex. We still do the steps 1), 3), 4) , 7), 8), 9).
     
  8. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    True, ideally we keep her edged for awhile then take her over the edge for a big one after it's too much, and let her convulsing trigger us for a joint finish.

    But, if we get triggered first, then we can enjoy the unloading and quickly take our mouths and fingers to the task to finish the job.
     
  9. Barry Thrift

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    Time to get her on top ether cow girl or reversed cowgirl, she will love it.
     
  10. Barry Thrift

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    What we eat will determ's the flavor of our sperm and what we drink can change the flavor.
     
  11. Sparky Paul

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    Have used the edging method and the 2-3 inch method with some success. Just need to train my mind...
     
  12. Alonso376

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    Had premature ejaculation with an ex who was the love of my life. More it happened, the more I worried about it and build it up in my head, the quicker it happened. She was definitely annoyed more and more. I was devastated. Loved her so much. Eventually we finished. Definitely was a factor. Not really had it since as sleot with others after but did not love them.
     
  13. Upnorthguy

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    Premature ejaculation is my nemesis! I hate that I have it/do it. My wife doesn't mind one bit, but it frustrates me something fierce.

    However, there is a way that I can avoid it. Basically speaking, I allow myself to get to the point of nearly cumming, then stop whatever it is we're doing....like when it's sex I'll pull out, or BJ I'll pull her off. It's all about timing. Too soon and I'm still super sensitive wanting to cum at a moments notice. Too late and it turns into an unwanted, undesirable cum. Timed just right though, and what happens is my cock "convulses" like I'm going to cum, but then after 30sec or so everything settles down and after that I can go forever because I'm essentially desensitized. After that it actually takes a LOT to get me to cum.

    I've gotten a lot better at timing it and quite often now I'm able to go and perform for her for as long as she can take it.
     
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  14. olderndirt

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    Where were you when I needed you when I first started having sex? My wife and I dated almost eight years before having sex with each other on our wedding night. She had sex with others, but not with me until that night. I was so excited that I just couldn't hold it. After a couple of weeks of daily sex, I discovered that if I masturbated before having sex I could last longer when we started making love. Then I tried thinking about some totally nonsexual thing after entering her, and that helped.
     
  15. Arch Duke Ferdinand

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    I have had pre-mature ejaculation since my teens and still usually cum almost immediately when I am contemplating having sex with the wife, as in I lay on the bed naked thinking about it and when she comes into the bedroom naked from the bathroom I either cum right then or almost as soon as we touch. I can then last for a long time but for me it is my mind getting me overly excited. I cum very easily and quickly and it has happened at inopportune and embarrassing times.
     
  16. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    That remind me of when I was quite young and started getting frisky with a girl, we were dry humping (dressed) when before I knew it I started shuddering and spurting in my jeans. I felt embarrassed about that. But that was the last time I felt embarrassed for cumming. I convinced myself to adopt the stance that whatever happens, happens. Certainty I had unintended/premature orgasms since, but just went with the flow. I've even walked around with a load of cum in my jeans showing wet and just enjoyed the feeling without concern whether anyone noticed. And the times I've fucked someone and came in them before they came, I just slid out and went down on them til they came. No biggie.
     
  17. Twogigahz

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    My thought is every ejaculation happens exactly at the point when it is supposed to happen. It may not always happen exactly when you want it to. You learn to control it, to a point, but always when you reach A) that level of excitement B) ejaculation happens. I think edging a lot as a kid helped me from going off too fast with those early encounters.....and is certainly a skill still I put to use.
     
  18. Peter Barnett

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    I make it last so long that I end up with "Lovers Nuts"
     
  19. Micheal9

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    I know a lot of men struggle with this and for that I’m sorry. I on other hand want to cum prematurely or have a spontaneous orgasm. Don’t ask my why.
     
  20. Barry Thrift

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    It takes most women 30 minutes to reach orgasm. that's why its best to let your fingers do the the first part then let your dick do the second part, lots of foreplay is the way to go, the guys who can make it last are few, we need to get with our women and keep trying and your get there one day, for guys you just have to put out of your mind and the more we think of away it goes.

    Hang in there it will happen one day and your be thinking why, but tell your women your getting there but slowly.

    Tip get a dildo that's your size, it helps.
     
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