Thanks for all your help....all of ya...and enigma what you said was especially helpful. My boyfriend told me today he is confused cuz he thinks if i am pregnant that I am unhappy...but the truth is im more worried that if I am i shouldnt be cramping and if not then why hasnt it started? But maybe thats it I should just stop worrying hehe. Well you asked about my other symptoms. I dont know if they are all in my head but I have been really irratable, im having trouble sleeping and I am getting weird cravings at weird times, I had a bladder infection a few days ago and my back is killing me....*sigh*....oh and my tastebuds are totally off lol...its weird...well all I can do is try not to worry and wait till friday to take another test if i dont start...that was recommened by my doc...oh and im gonna try not to have sex since I usually do everyday...maybe thats throwing it off too...lol
Actually, it's my understanding that being highly aroused can bring your period on sooner, rather than delaying it. I believe it's because having your juices flowing in excitement can also sort of kick-start those other juices... I could be wrong though... I just happen to have heard that somewhere over the years.
If you are pregnant, it's way too early to be having cravings. Spotting could be a sign of pregnancy, or could be a sign of period delayed by stress/worry. Ditto for the cramps really. One good sign is your breasts. If they become 'fuller' or sensitive, then you could be pregnant. Your best bet would be to see your Doctor. I don't wish to be judgemental, but from your first post it doesn't sound as if you have the best environment and relationship in which to bring a kid. Why wait until you are pregant to get married. Pregnancy / kids are a lousy reason to get married. You should get married if you love each other and want to spend your lives together. Have you sat down and discussed this properly? Having a baby is a truly life changing thing, and WILL change your relationship. It's not all luvvy duvvy, there are significant stresses and challenges - financial, emotional and environmental - with having a young family. I'd suggest that whether pregant or not, you need to talk out the issues and your relationship as a whole. Good luck however it turns out.
The bleeding may be implantation bleeding. Which usually happens, and is commonly mistaken for a period. You might want to go to the doctor and get a test from them just incase.