Background: getting a great handjob or other pleasure, precum starts after a short while and it keeps going maybe even off and on, and some cum during the fun. If I have a condom, sometimes there is enough that the fluid comes out of the condom. And the condom slides and can’t stay on unless it’s held in place. Anyone causes it or experience it?
I would assume everyone is different regarding how their body works during arousal. As for me I have a generous of precum but haven’t had to use a condom much. Maybe a snugger fitting condom is what you need.